LOL... well sometimes the advice they give at Al Anon is when a loony alcoholic is saying their blaming crap, you just say, you're probably right.
That kind of leaves them slack-jawed. Anyway, arguing with a narc is like arguing with someone out of their senses on alcohol. Why argue with a loon? It's like arguing with a two year old. You wouldn't try to reason with them!
Once my son argued with me about Abraham Lincoln. He said he got shot in a movie theater (he was in first grade) and I was nicely explaining to him about theaters and that back then, etc etc... and he just gives me this look and says well that's not what my book says (talk about someone who never gives in) and I started to get mad! I was going to argue back -- I mean, who knows more about Abraham Lincoln here???? And then I kind of laughed and thought, what am I thinking? Why did that make me angry? lol I was going to argue with a six yr old about who was right. Well... that's narc land. haha Okay that was totally off topic, sorry!
I don't know how you even read that with all it's abbreviations and caps. Geesh. I thing if I was going to answer I would have to say something about speaking in English.:)
Just another tactic girl. They got a million. The exN always like to go on a fishing expedition to see if I got somebody else. I used to be so honest and deep and tell it like it was -got nobody. But know better than that now. I ignore completely. Heard all the plays after so many years including the ones about being in trouble for a hundred different things. We have all fallen for it so don't beat yourself up just go NC again and don't forget that got more where that came from. He probably saw that in a movie.
almostlydia
Yeah, he's asked me several times before if I'm seeing anyone and I always politely reply "no"...I used to tell him if we broke up I would never want to be in another relationship ever again...he would say "am I that bad of a person and so wicked to you that you would say that? That's a very selfish thing for you to say"....Ugh!!
What the hell is he still texting me for if he believes I have "met someone"? He said he wouldn't want to hear/c/speak to me again...so WTF?
```Live,Laugh,love```
If I'm going to break NC nowadays that I truly (ha) get it, I damn sure am going to make sure I torture the hell out of him. He can text me from the bathroom while he has one of the OW's laying in wait??? but God forbid I should have another man. It was hardly possible not to ruin that occasion.:) And I will admit, back in the early days I would ruin his Tu/Thur/Sun nights quite often because I always knew. Back in those early days after a break up, I'd send him a text because I knew it threw a loop in his latest adventure. He could forget about me all he wanted until I sent him a text. I knew it jerked him right out of paradise. This was of course before I got educated. But back then when it was war, I was a formidable foe. That's probably why he was hanging on to me, I was just too much fun to play with.
almostlydia
What the hell is he still texting me for if he believes I have "met someone"? He said he wouldn't want to hear/c/speak to me again...so WTF?
```Live,Laugh,love```
we should be so lucky lol.
Trabslation to an I that bad of a person that u wouldn't want a realationship again=Man I am awesome if I could mess her up that way. what they say is always the opposite of what they mean
someone's a little pissed.. So sorry little Narc Boy. Im so sorry you are having a little tantrum becuase I know your sick little secret. yes that's right I know about your little mental illness and how disgusted you feel about yourself.
I think I would love to get a text like that. It would make me think Woohoo got'em.
Actually I do have a text like that though it is not as harsh. Just says I cant believe how you hurt me. telling me the things Im doing to you when those are things you are doing to me. telling me that if I loved you I would act a certain way. Thats not "healthy". Hmmm thats "not healthy -coming from a very sick man" ahh the irony
LOL... well sometimes the
I don't know how you even
almostlydia
almostlydia....
```Live,Laugh,love```
If I'm going to break NC
almostlydia
yeah right
Trabslation to an I that bad
Sick of it..re: Translation...
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Used....
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someone's a little pissed..