dazedandcnonfused's story
dazedandcnonfused's story
I'm the OW my story
I have begun to write this a few times and keep deleting over the past week. I am still in contact and my feelings are very raw.
I met him 17yrs ago and thought he was my soul mate. I loved everything about him. I didnt realize he was under age until I was already in love. He didnt go to highschool so I really didnt realize he was younger than me. I was 21 at the time. One day his parents cut me out of his life. I was so hurt that he never said good bye. Looking back this was probably his easy way of d&d me. I moved out of the state within 6 months after getting my heart broken. I quickly met another man and have been with this man for 16 yrs. We have children together and have created an amazing life together.
A little over a year ago my ex found me on facebook. We have talked every day since then. With the exceptions of the times he is mad and is giving me the silent treatment. Sometimes just a couple hours, or days and one time it was for a month.
He is also married and I am not really clear how his relationship is with his wife. He pretty much comes and goes as he wants. Never talks about her. Except to tell me that I need to get a divorce but he isnt going to get a divorce.
I am in constant turmoil with this game of him showering me with attention, and then he ignores me tells me I have a man and he doesnt want to be with me.
I am searching for answers, I am not sure if he is a Narc...but the things I read sounds like he is.
I am struggling because I have never thought about leaving my husband before. But I would leave my husband for this man and it scares me. Please tell me what your opinion is. I think part of me feels like I never got my chance to be with him and I yearn to know him and love him.
we are all OW with them :))
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Agree with you about that.
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