Moron alert

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#1 Aug 19 - 7PM

whskywmn5

Moron alert

Oh poor pitiful me.....LOL my asshole called and left a voicemail on my phone.....telling me as he wife i had certain privileges that werent afforded to other people. So if I wanted to come home, to call him and we would discuss it...HAHAHA let me think about that HELL NO but if I didnt call within a few days he would be moving on with his life....what the hell does someone have to do, bash his damn brains in, how many times you have to tell the moron we are done....NO MORE

#2 Aug 20 - 3AM

lillymarch

Mine is doing that...

Came back from a trip and said he was going to ask me to work together to heal this family. FAMILY. Said that I had been his best friend for 20 years. BEST FRIEND. Do best friends destroy each other? Does family include the other woman he's been seeing? And, he was going to ASK ME? How about on the ground kissing my feet and begging me to take his sorry ass back?! It never changes does it? He has done no wrong. 18 years of marriage meant nothing to him, all of my time, commitment, and love. NOTHING TO HIM.I agree on the actually something wrong in the brain. A piece is missing. A hole in the heart or soul that i can never fill.

#3 Aug 20 - 5AM (Reply to #19)

whskywmn5

There must be a Narc academy

In mines case there is a major part of his heart and soul missing...not only his little pea brain. He is incapable of receiving love and accepting love. The fools for some reason like flaunting these OW in there lives, whatever they maybe in our faces, I feel like as a weapon saying hey look here, you dont want me this woman does......omgggg they can have your sorry ass, im so done with all the heartache!!!

#4 Aug 20 - 7AM (Reply to #20)

freaked

Academy of Nark Arts

yeah!!! Academy of Narc Art. Same place where Voldemort used to be Headmaster before Harry Potter decimated him. Stringent entrance test...only those without conscience are admitted. Mine must have passed out with a platinum medal decked with pure carbon.

#5 Aug 19 - 11PM

Sunafterrain

Wow

Mine must be weird or something. once he married the young millionaire and knocked her up, he left me alone! Admittedly, I miss the illusion, but it IS nice to have peace in my life. Also, when you tell them you know what the hell they are and don't beat around the bush, they know you're done and can't be duped anymore.

#6 Aug 20 - 5AM (Reply to #17)

whskywmn5

Like a bad penny

I hope your always so lucky, as for him to stay gone and leaving you alone. Sad to say in alot of instances they do at some point and time in your life find their way back and try to worm their way back into your life, in some way.

#7 Aug 19 - 9PM

sara-smile

whskywmn

Hey!!! I've been wondering about you! Glad to see you back on here! I see nothing has changed with your moron either. I'm having the same problem with mine. He just won't leave me the hell alone. It's too big of a smack to that fragile ego of theirs that we are actually moving on and away from them! Glad you are doing good! I miss talking to you!! Hugs, Sara

#8 Aug 20 - 5AM (Reply to #13)

whskywmn5

Thanks Sara,

Thanks for the welcome back Sara, and what is the say the more things change, the more they stay the same. No nothing has changed with my moron, only with me as I slowly get a little stronger each day. Something im sure he never expected, and I stopped playing his sick little games. Ive missed you too, but I think we all take this journey at out own pace, for me I was away from the computer for awhile, all the storys that I read here were bringing me even farther down in a deep pit, one I felt like I was drowning in....but im hoping that I have slowly started to emerge from that pit.

#9 Aug 20 - 11AM (Reply to #14)

sara-smile

whskywmn

I understand needing to get away too. Sometimes reading about all the pain Narcs are causing is too much for me when I'm trying to stay away from him or I'm raging. I have to step away for a few days. I'm just glad you are doing good!! I'm so proud of how far you have come. Email me if you need anything!

#10 Aug 20 - 12PM (Reply to #15)

Done sourcing

I dub you Sir Moronarc

Maybe I will call mine Lady Moronarc!! Assclown works well though. Best way to look at a narc is in the rear-view mirror. NC and No Response if they call us. ds

#11 Aug 19 - 7PM

Done sourcing

Such a narc move, it is

Such a narc move, it is funny. In a few days he will move on with his life??? He needs to get a life of his own. No need to tell him anything, and that is freedom! ds

#12 Aug 19 - 7PM (Reply to #11)

whskywmn5

Too funny

Yes it is funny, you can almost read them like a bad novel. I know his next move almost before he does it. I wont bother to respond to him, let him figure it out for himself if he is capable of taxing his little pea brain that much.

#13 Aug 19 - 7PM (Reply to #2)

kaye25

Move On Then

Good for you!!! A few minutes have past now move on then Loser. They always think we will fall for their lame ass games. You have inspired someone on this board to realize it can be done. Your Winning!!! :) Kaye

#14 Aug 19 - 7PM (Reply to #3)

whskywmn5

Thanks

They are only baby steps at times, but slowly with each of those steps I pull myself farther out of the darkness into the light of day. Thats not to say im still not having really rough days...today has been one, I snapped at my father when he made a comment, because what he said reminded me of my crazy narc. Because not only am I dealing with the breakup of my marriage to this lunatic, I came back home and im helping my parents, which in itself is hard, dealing with my mother whom has alhemizers, and doesnt remember stuff, that added on top of the madness im going thru with in want of a better word....ass is I feel at times slowly driving me right off the deep end.

#15 Aug 19 - 8PM (Reply to #4)

Swan

My Narchole

recently said that after I shut him down and went NC a few months back that he was sad for about a week or two and then was happy, truly happy and relieved that we were over. Hmmm, and yet during those same 2 weeks I got email after email and voicemail after voicemail about how much he loves me, he misses me, we forgot all the reasons why we got married in the first place and that we should talk and try again and with some counseling he could change and work on his anger issues. I have the dated emails to prove that he wasn't quite as happy as he remembers he was. moron.

#16 Aug 19 - 8PM (Reply to #5)

whskywmn5

HAAAA

But of course when things are mentions to them, they never do remember them happening in the same light that we do....I think they wear some rose colored glasses or something, because my vision and theirs are completely opposites.

#17 Aug 19 - 8PM (Reply to #6)

Swan

uh huh..

and right there in the counselor's office all three of us talked about something all 3 agreed on it and then not 5 min later Narchole throws a fit saying that we never resolved issue X I swear sometimes i think he's got severe brain damage and the sick part is the part of his brain that controls this type of thing, his impulsivity, etc is the same part that is damaged in the type of ADHD he has. Sooooo brain damage it is!

#18 Aug 20 - 1AM (Reply to #9)

Arwen

Swan, I am basically positive

Swan, I am basically positive that mine has ADHD, ADD,and some sort of brain abnormality like a kind of retardation. He constantly forgot things and it could have happened five minutes before. I believe most of these narcs do have some sort of brain damage and in reading so many posts here about it I am wondering if there really is actually something to it - for real, I'm not kidding.

#19 Aug 20 - 8AM (Reply to #10)

Swan

Arwen

My Narchole was diagnosed with severe ADHD about 2 years into our marriage. I thought, "whew, now things will be ok now that he's on meds." NOPE! Stupid me. I also believe he has OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) ODD (Oppositional Defiance Disorder)/Conduct Disorder Bipolar- possibility of course NPD/Psychopathy/Sociopathy and a Communication Disorder-he was in special ed when a kid. Which I found out just a couple of years ago. I am sure there is more. He's just got such a scramble egg brain. Makes one want to pity him, if he wasn't so damn cruel on purpose. **He's come a looooooong way since that Prince Charming Persona I met 5 years ago.

#20 Aug 19 - 8PM (Reply to #7)

whskywmn5

No counseling

LOL when I suggested we do counseling as a means to help us sort out some things I was told we didnt need anyone else butting into our lives we could do it on our on....because in his dememted pea brain, there wasnt a problem.

#21 Aug 19 - 8PM (Reply to #8)

Swan

OH!

Mine demanded it! Said that we needed to do it or else. i guess the sick f*ck thought that a 3rd party would agree with him shows how demented he is!!! No one, no one ever agreed with him and we went through 5 counselors! He still doesn't get it.

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