Is he about to start hoovering?
Is he about to start hoovering?
Basically, After he broke up with me I thought he completely moved on "emotionally" however, it has been a year and he has been single this whole time..
Anyways, now that he has noticed I am doing better, by not contacting him, happy, doing well.. he has been contacting me a little bit. Which is out of character because he made it clear I was not right for him.... But he still made it clear he wanted to be civil with me and not cut me out totally..
It seems like he would contact me from time to time to check up and feel me out to see if he still had my control (AKA SEE IF I STILL CARED) which I showed I did by responding to him and saying one time that I missed him and then he never talked to me again.
So the beginning of this summer he contacted me two times over texting (when he contacts me it's not just "hey" he always has a reason to contact me.. like an excuse so its not obvious he just wants to talk to me)
I responded briefly to the texts but never contacted him.. His text was just telling me that my email sent his email spam, that was random and weird/confusing.
btw we were together for 2.5 years and were eachothers first bf and gf..
Recently he has
-"liked" a photo of me on my facebook that was taken a couple years ago when we were together
- he asked me directly what I have been up to this summer
-he asked me to explain why things are going so well in my life (which i didnt)
-He then contacted me on FB chat and asked again what I have been up to all summer, and I was very brief (totally caught off gaurd) and then quickly said I had to run..
-Then he texted me 2 days after that to ask if I was ok and to tell him exactly what happened to me (I recently got injured in a small car accident)
He seemed very concerned/nice and then told me he burned some CD for me and that I should tell him when I am back in town at school.. I was very brief and indifferent
Pretty much I cannot tell if he is just trying to get information, sex, or if he wants me back, or if it really is nothing and there is a simple explanation for contact from the ex N.... I think the thought of me not needing him anymore Terrifies him Because I use to basically worship him, and now I don't need him.. But part of me still wants him and I want to know if he is going to straight up ask for me back or just play these games of texting, random contact, etc.
IDK, a little confused as to what he is thinking. If it doesn't mean anything or if he has a motive.
And I am totally proud of myself for not contacting him and not giving him information, its a big step for me
Anyways, thank you for reading my situation
Hi collegegirl... first, I'd
All I can advice you, is what
My ex N doing exactly the
WTF makes them get back to
They don't change; they just "pretend" to change
When you broke up how did it
College girl, he has sought
College Girl
Thank you!
can't imagine why he's still