Whats the craziest thing your N has ever said?
Whats the craziest thing your N has ever said?
There are alot of words to choose from, I know,but I was thinking of this one conversation I had with him one day...
We were on the bus and he was being his usual stubborn self. I remember feeling really angry and irritated with him, but was doing my best to not show it. I started wondering to myself "Is this the kind of behavior that prompted his ex to turn psyco on him?" Don't get me wrong, I don't hit people and thats not my way but is how I felt toward him sometimes.
So I said, "Babe can I ask you something? Im just curious...you know when you told me before that one of your ex's used to beat you over the head with frying pans? Why did she do it?"
He said "Oh, well I knew how to set her off with my mouth."
I said "Why would you do that?" He says "because she used to play mind games on me."
"What kind of mind games?" i said. He goes "Like one time she told me she had been sexually abused by her step father." Silence. I waited for him to explain, and it was a wierd moment. We were at the back door of the bus, i was just a few inches from his face, starring at him and waiting for an explanation...well guess what: that wouldve been all that he said if i didnt question him further.
I started to remember things i had told him in the past about certain kinds of abuse too, and thinking "So he must think that i too am "messing with him?"
I said "How is that messing with your mind? What do you mean?" Then he said because its a lie.
First of all, he wasnt going to say that until i pushed him. Second, how could he say its a lie when he could never know that?
At that moment, i realized that he is in a totally different world than me. I started to realize how sick his thinking is....
OOOHHH I got it!!
Ummmmm....so many ....:)
This is good therapy for me....:)
LIKE THE WIND YOU MEAN NARC
LOL!!
LOL
lol
Go on Oprah
OOH NO! GOT IT! My ex
I notice that two posters
Bunny Boiler
funny one
I do.
ooh!
A FEW GEMS
ahahahahahaha ok, the second
All women secretly hate each other
"All women secretly hate each other"
The 3 that upset me
I think the craziest bit for
The refusal
After he met ow and discarded
Yeah
confusing projection
After I told him I would
Mine used to cut down trees
I don't know
OMG
just one of the crazy things
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