Just saw him

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#1 Feb 28 - 2PM

Redhead

Just saw him

Walked into tire shop to buy new tires. There stands the MF. I just rolled my eyes & tried to ignore him. As he was leaving, he hands me his old credit card (my account) & says " we don't have to be acrimonious." I just looked at him. He then tugged my shirt & said "take care." I just looked @ him & said "take care." I need y'all so much right now. I'm so rattled. Really? He can treat me this way & expect me to be happy to see him?

#2 Mar 1 - 11AM

matahari

Good on you gal

you have done well, give yourself a pat on the back. Being indifferent is the way to go, your response was spot on.....he probably thinks he is Gods gift and that you would have buckled but you did not. Good on you gal! as they say 'good riddance to bad rubbish'-Fuck off you TOE RAG....Keep strong xx

#3 Feb 29 - 9PM

janemarie

It kills me when these

It kills me when these assheads act as though nothing ever happened badly between you!!!!!! I agree when people say to ignore (I havent had the pleasure to run into mine yet) but Im thinking if he approaches me I may say, "Who are you? Oh I didnt recognize you with your mask on!" Then Ill spit in his face and kick him in the balls, when he bends over in pain Ill knee him in the face........OH SORRY...my mind drifted for a minute!!!! Stay strong Redhead and remember...you are HAPPILY DIVORCED!!!!!!

#4 Feb 29 - 1AM

nomoredenial

Its sp wierd how they act

You did way better than I, the first time I ran into him at the store I was so suprised that the first thing that came out of my mouth was " Im not stalking you I promise" He said +oh I was wondering" I feel into that one. Oh my gosh, Now I would say, your stalking me. Hang in there you did great!!!

#5 Feb 28 - 7PM

onwithmylife

redhead

It s all business to these assholes, you did fine, when i saw the exnarc after 3 years I blurted out can you take for a few mins and all he said was he saw my post on an internet site, so you did lots better, if I ever see him again will totally ignore the freak.........

#6 Feb 28 - 7PM

wsh

Hey!

I think the BEST thing to do when running into the Narc is to IGNORE HIM! Look away....pretend you didn't see him......& then if HE comes up to YOU, say "oh geez! I DIDN'T EVEN NOTICE YOU!" Right to heart of the asshole!

#7 Feb 28 - 3PM

Sparrow

Shake it off.........you have

Shake it off.........you have come to far to let him get to you like this. It's an initial shock is all. Your doing great and will continue to!

#8 Feb 28 - 3PM

MountainLady

Consider yourself a Survivor

Your first sighting and you kept your dignity. Yahoo! It should be easier the next time knowing you survived it and handled it so well. I'm envious...I havn't seen mine since the D&D 8 months ago. I dread the day, not sure how I will react. You set the example - perfect response is no response. I'll try to remember that - I know the day will come for me too.

#9 Feb 28 - 3PM

Movingforwardnow

Redhead

So proud of you fro keeping it together! You rock girlfriend! movingforwardnow (and always)

#10 Feb 28 - 2PM

Run4it

Redhead

I have similar run-ins with my exN at the gym and around town. He tries to act like some friendly stranger freak unless OW is with him, then he ducks his head and hides. I always just ignore him totally. No talking. No eye contact. It always leaves me feeling rattled a bit as well. My heart pounds etc and I get mad when he tries to be friendly, although I don't let him see or know that. Just know that these feelings will pass. He ripped your guts and heart out, so it hurts to see him. I think it is because they never take responsibility or apologize for anything, like a normal being.

#11 Feb 28 - 2PM

Tinker23

Good job on just saying take

Good job on just saying take care and nothing more! You are worth so much more then he will ever be which was just proven bc you didn't cave into his stupid games. Hugs to you :)

#12 Feb 28 - 2PM

Femmegem

hey Red

OK first of all...big well done for keeping your composure in front of him! He is one big walking talking screwball of an act don't forget that! He doesn't have a normal sense of time and boundaries. I can only imagine how you must feel I'm dreading that moment but vent away, but stay NC whatever you do. Whats with the credit card? Will you have to give it back? Either way, Stay NC honey you can do this. He knows you've been strong and kept your distance so this was his way of forcing his way in. Jerk! Just breathe and keep reminding yourself of what he is! Hope you're ok sweet. X

#13 Feb 28 - 2PM

Hunter

Today you won a prize..a

Today you won a prize..a Boobie prize indeed.. This is just another example of how Fucked up they are.. They have no concept of fantasy vs reality.. You did the right thing. Hunter

#14 Feb 28 - 5PM (Reply to #2)

Redhead

Thank you, thank you, thank

Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! I can't say that enough. This has been a shit day & I wouldn't have made it without y'all. Run4it - I don't know how you do it...you're a better woman than me. The credit account was in my name to begin with. After we married, I put him on the account. He can no longer use it. I guess the thing that bothers me the most is that he had the audacity to say to me let's not be bitter. Well, he doesn't have the right to suggest that to me!! Why in the hell should he be bitter? I didn't do anything to him!! UGH!!!!!!!!!!! Hunter, I guess you said it all when you said they don't know reality from fantasy. He is so narcissistic that he doesn't have a clue what he did!!

#15 Mar 2 - 8PM (Reply to #3)

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Just saw him

Just saw him

Good on you gal

It kills me when these

Its sp wierd how they act

redhead

Hey!

Shake it off.........you have

Consider yourself a Survivor

Redhead

Redhead

Good job on just saying take

hey Red

Today you won a prize..a

Thank you, thank you, thank

Hi red, my x has done the