we mut go against our caring /compasionate nature to protect ourselves from the Narc
we mut go against our caring /compasionate nature to protect ourselves from the Narc
I got some news last nite that if Narc were a normal human I would have reached out and offered my condolences for his loss as well as everyonelses. Instead I put on a hard shell and didnt let it pull at my heartstrings. This is what we must do to regain our lives. It still pulls on me a bit today..but I am keeping busy and reaching out to others affected by this news and not the Narc.
With the christmas holiday fast approaching we all have to do this as well. We cant extend the kindness that we have in our hearts to the N...we must put ourselves first.
If we contact the N he will only gloat or rage. It will show him our soft vulnerable side and we dont want that.
We all deserve to be happy this holiday season.
Last year XN had the nerve to text me on NYE saying he was praying for me. I threw the phone on the counter at the diner I was at with friends. That text was after he kicked me out of his life days prior. This year he wont get to me like that..for the N and the N only I put away my compassionate side this holiday season and give it only to those worthy of it.
Someone on another forum said to me once...we must suffer in silence without them knowing...I wouldnt call it suffering now...I call it living...living without the Narc.
Cheers to you Destiny!!!
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