7 months!!!! Im back:)
7 months!!!! Im back:)
Hello everyone,
I have missed everyone here. Im friends with a few of you on fb but took a break from this forum. I found it triggered me to read and write about my ex so much. I have spent the last 7 months fixing my life basically.
I feel like I am stronger and can join in discussions to help others without self destructing.
Thank you Hunter for helping me reset my password more than once. I had completely forgot my login and password with my hiatus:/
A little past history is that I am happily married with children and my ex found me almost 3 yrs ago. It has been a very emotional time for me and nearly cost me my marriage.
Between my exes mind games, guilt trips and silent treatments I was a complete mess.
I finally pulled my crap together during the last silent treatment that lasted 4 months. Wouldnt you know it right when I was over him he came back. He started talking to me again last Dec. This time I was wise to his cycles and his abuse that I kept my guard up. Not getting drunk helped soooo much, and I highly recommend not drinking while getting over a narc. Your guard comes down and they get you by the balls so to speak. Anyhow we now have a good relationship that feels healthy and good. Honestly this is where I always hoped to move to. But before he wasnt happy unless he was fucking with my head and life. Now its different!
We keep in touch and its been nearly 9 months with no games or silent treatment. With the one thing that changed was me and my response to him.
Anyhow, Im back and I hope to help others that are struggling the way I was for over 2 yrs because honestly it was the worse 2 yrs if my life. I never want to feel like that again. And I hope to help others process and move on quicker than I did.
Thank you to everyone that
Unfortunately, to a
I hear you I really do. And
I so wish I could hug you
ok, one more thing. loli
Can this blog add a LIKE button like on FB
Jenna if there was a button I
The box to the left ..with a
For privacy reasons there is
Journey on...
Dogs have that sixth sense....
round3
:)
Round 3
dazed...just one more thought...lol (i'm done i promise)
I agree with Deidre and I'm
Journey on...
dazed, in case you missed it...
spinning
dazed i remember you,
I have something new to say
Thank you for all the
Hey Dazed...welcome back.
Dazed, I'm three years out
Journey on...
Short and sweet
Narcs don't have friends
Wow! Friends with exN
I am glad to see you're back.
Thanks diedre! Its nice to
Just adding on, before I
Well this wasnt the welcome
scary
dazed