Why is betrayal so hard to get past
Why is betrayal so hard to get past
Hi all,
I am doing tons better than in the past. Actually starting to enjoy my life (although I am working on my adrenal fatigue by really taking great care of my body/ nutrition).
However, there is this one obstacle .... the betrayal. At times I find my mind thinking, "wow, if only I knew he was devaluing me bc he had another girl" or "if only I knew he was blaming me for all of his badness when it was really HIM and his narc way of moving on to his new supply." For them there has to be hate in order for there to be 'love' (idealization) of the new source.
The betrayal and feeling like a fool is what is still left for me. I feel I could be fully happy again (nearly) if I could just get past the betrayal.
Anyone have ANY ideas of what I could do... processes I could enact. Why is the betrayal factor still there for me?
Jess
Betrayal
Cynthia
emotional rape
He will always betray
Jessika
Hi Jessika, Just in my
Your self-talk
I feel your pain
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I tell you how I feel, but you don't care. I say, "Tell me the truth," but you don't dare. You say love is a hell you cannot bear. And I say, "Give me mine back and then go there for all I care!" - Fiona Apple (Sleep to Dream)
Yes
Yes!
You're on the right track
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I tell you how I feel, but you don't care. I say, "Tell me the truth," but you don't dare. You say love is a hell you cannot bear. And I say, "Give me mine back and then go there for all I care!" - Fiona Apple (Sleep to Dream)
Jessika
Thanks again everyone