Ran into the XN

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#1 Jan 23 - 11AM
kimi67
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Ran into the XN

It was bound to happen sooner or later....I was walking to work, was almost there when I saw his car. As he got closer, I looked down and prentended not to see him thinking he would just pass by. He didn't, he turned into the street that i was crossing and rolled down his window. I said, 'hi', he said 'hi', one of us said 'how are you' first, i said 'good', he said 'good, plugging along' or something like that (as he looked me up and down - the creep!) (oh and yes, i looked pretty hot this morning ;). he said, 'you look like an angel with the sun behind you'....trying to be nice, but the comment had that same old shitty tone that all of his comments had. it's like i could hear the 'real words' behind his comment - "i really don't want to say anything nice about you, but feel as though i should to get you to talk to me"

i didn't comment on his shitty comment, just smiled. after about 5 seconds of silence, i waved and said, 'ok, cya' and walked off.

now, what do i need to beware of feeling after this encounter? i don't want to start spinning! so far, i feel ok, unaffected, but i'm not sure that will continue.....thank you for any advice!

Feb 1 - 2PM
anamolly
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I ran into my XN a cpl weeks

Jan 23 - 12PM
Very happy girl
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Ok

Jan 23 - 11AM
Used
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kimi

Jan 23 - 12PM (Reply to #4)
kimi67
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i will not be made to feel

Jan 23 - 1PM (Reply to #10)
Deidre99
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I see this from your angle,

Jan 23 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
spinning
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Kimi, why would you

spinning

Jan 23 - 1PM (Reply to #9)
talktothehand
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Kimi

Jan 23 - 12PM (Reply to #5)
Used
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kimi

Jan 23 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
kimi67
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i'm sorry, Used. i shouldn't

Jan 23 - 1PM (Reply to #7)
Used
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kimi

Jan 23 - 11AM
brinamarie
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Spinning and cog diss...

Jan 23 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
kimi67
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thank you :)