They DO come back....or at least...they TRY
They DO come back....or at least...they TRY
I don't know why I thought I was the exception, but somehow I had convinced myself that Mr. N was done with me and I'd never hear from him again. After all....a year and 2 months ago he had sent me a good bye text message (while I was out of the country) telling me how he had met someone else and was in love with her and that I was not to contact him. As much as I struggled with the finality of those words...they were also comforting....he was done with me and I could move on with my life. I didn't think twice about leaving him as a professional contact..after all, I didn't really do much with that account. So you can imagine my surprise when a message popped into my inbox with his name. Starting with one of his terms of endearment that he used to use with me, he promptly stated that he is now working close to where I live and wanted to know if I wanted to resume our "relationship". It would have been flattering had I not spent so much time in the process of disengaging and discovering myself again. As it was....the thought that came to my mind was...No Thanks!! I am not opening that door again....My response will be No Response. :) But I have learned my lesson....do not leave any door open for the Narc...because they WILL try.
Enjoying a Narc Free life!!
Holy shit, and another one. I
Walkingonsunshine
I was blocked, so I won't
Yeah!
I cringe when I read stories
Congratulations!!
TNR my sweet!!
spinning
I wish I had gotten the "I'm
Perhaps I'm delusional but....
I would have thought the same
5 years is 5 minutes
sickofhim
Never Come Back
murphyagnes
OWML
Onwithmylife
i did this too, yes , in a
narcs never say never. ;)
SOH
It's highly doubtful....
SOH
exactamundo! i have stopped
Thebigpayback
LOL
I have only been NC for 3
7 years?
Not Mentally Ill?
I am praying that I do not
Leslie I read your story
Thank you! I am working on