Don't break NC...It's not worth it. Personal Experience :(
Don't break NC...It's not worth it. Personal Experience :(
So I thought I was doing so well. I even posted how happy I was but one skill of the narc is how to get a reaction. I broke contact after 4 months. I was actually quite happy. I was still doing my own thing but seeing him, he even took me on a trip and indulged on his dime. But alas, a few months into it the lies are revealed again. I caught him but let him know I knew by accident when I mistakenly sent a text to him intended for my friend. Well here we go again, he plays the victim, attacking me, accusing him of not respecting his privacy when he has yet to respect me, telling me he's single and can do what he wants, bla bla bla!!! Well I quickly stopped replying and due to the recent phone update it won't currently allow me to block him so I received one last message a week ago asking why I was the one who always messed things up. The funny part is that the way I found out humiliated him so for the first time he knows what it's like after he has humiliated me. I think that's his real anger. i don't deserve that shit. If he wants to be single he can do it without me in his life. He has other supply so I know me going away doesn't bother him. So after a strong discussion with myself, support from loving friends and yelling out loud several times "I will never talk to him or see him again!" I am hoping to be stronger this time around. I know a few of you have broke NC and you know exactly what I mean. Some of us are not as strong as others but we are working at it. I may be getting a great job offer in the coming week (fingers crossed) and that will begin a new and hopefully wonderful chapter in my life. Then I can change my number. Lesson learned.....THEY NEVER CHANGE. IT'S NOT WORTH IT TO BREAK CONTACT. Like me friend told me "It's time to go out, celebrate and meet some cute new boys!"
Thank you!
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