A Good Laugh. An Example of Narc BS
A Good Laugh. An Example of Narc BS
It never ceases to amaze me how alike our stories are. When I read about other stories on this website it gives me such strength to hang in there and be strong. My N would send me these "bitty" messages, whether it's emails, txts, or phone messages, leaving me with the "hope" that he is still out there. One night, two months ago, he sent me 17 text messages saying "wouldn't it be great if we just bumped into each other" and other stupid sh*t like..."are you okay" and "be careful driving" and "I'm thinking of You", etc. When I finally gave in and texted him back and said Okay, lets get together, his stupid response was..."I am still seeing the OW, so that wouldn't be fair to you or her, so we should wait until I break up with her". CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT SH#T!! So, when I didn't respond to that he sent me a text saying..."Why didn't you respond, I thought I said something positive about us". OMG!! What a jerk he is, but what a jerk I was to accept an answer like that. This is the kind of mind F'ing these Ns do. I am a smart woman with a great career and I bought that, even though it made me twitch after I read it. I kept walking around in circles thinking..."gee, that really pissed me off, but should I be confused or happy??". I just realized there is a section on this website for NARCSPEAK. I think we should all write down for each other all the stupid stuff we have been told. I think it would provide for us a good laugh. God knows, we need to laugh at this so that the healing can begin. I have a lot of pain I am dealing with right now. Perhaps we can start a new section in this website called..."A Good Laugh". These Ns are such awful jerks. We all deserve so much better. As I read your stories I can hear what wonderful women you all are, and it touches me a great deal. Thank you all and God bless all of us. Thank you Barbara for your strength and support!!
BS all the time...
AC Girl seriously a month