email hacking

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#1 Jun 26 - 9AM

suzanne

email hacking

I know it's wrong, but I need a serious shove to move my frozen state of fear of leaving.

I figured out his password before using a keystroke logger, WOW...I learned alot about him and his girlfriend. He has changed his password and won't use this PC anymore. He uses his PC at the office and the laptop.

I need God, and a email hacker, to put it in front of my face because I think she is back and the porn addiction has not ended. I need to see it again to light the fire in my soul and under my ass.

Anyone know a good hacker. It is so wrong and against my nature, I feel like a snake, why do I need to torture myself? Isn't what has happened already enough?

#2 Jun 27 - 4PM

Carolyn

There is a natural curiosity

There is a natural curiosity in some of this but instead of a hacker get a lawyer or some other person that represents leaving not knowing more about what is wrong and staying. you aren't frozen you are talking about leaving and going starts in the mind, and travels down to your feet. by thinking about going, posting on this site, and knowing you want to go you are all but gone. you could say your mind is already out the door and waiting for the rest of you. plan your plan then work your plan. Find out how this affects you financially, emotionally, legally, learn what the upsides and downsides are. Pick a place to live, keep your plans to yourself, and do what you have to do. by hacking into his life with 'her' you are looking for him to give you more reasons to leave. You have to leave because it is what you want to do and because it is the right thing for you to do. Maybe make a list of the pro's and con's. Sometimes if we let our emotions rule the situation it gets messy but the intellect will put another spin on it.

#3 Jun 27 - 8AM

suzanne

A NEW DAY, A NEW THOUGHT

Why in the hell do I do this...I am back to thinking, I really need to know. I feel like I need to prove to myself my hunches are right. He uses his PC at work, hmmm. I authorized the request...you all must think I am nuts! Do you flip flop like this?

#4 Jun 27 - 4PM (Reply to #20)

Barbara (not verified)

flip flop

that's normal - the back/ forth. if this is what you need to pack your bags and GET OUT then that's what it will take. Psycho-Boy said on his blog (since erased) he bought his wife a new computer to help her 'check up on him.' What he SHOULD have gotten her was tracking software like PC Pandora because it is far too easy to create new emails, new identities and of course - that's exactly what he's still doing. this should help you: http://www.infidelity.com/index.cfm/event/article/class/Second-Chance/articleId/336.html and let us know what you find out do NOT - I repeat DO NOT CONFRONT HIM WITH IT UNTIL YOU ARE WELL OUT!!!!!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/

#5 Jun 27 - 9AM (Reply to #19)

malloryforest

we all flip flop

We all flip flop like this. One minute you want the information. The next minute you don't want the information because you don't know what you are going to do or how you are going to handle the new information. Let us know how it goes.

#6 Jun 26 - 8PM

Jodie

I downloaded Eblaster on his

I downloaded Eblaster on his computer and found that he spent hours online on granny porn. "Cry now because you lost him or cry later because you have him."

"Cry now because you lost him or cry later because you have him."

#7 Jun 26 - 9PM (Reply to #16)

Barbara (not verified)

Jodie

granny porn?!?!?! ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/

#8 Jun 27 - 10AM (Reply to #17)

Jodie

Yep

Granny porn. It was disgusting. When I confronted him he said many porn sites come up automatically. Whatever. The key key strokes proved he was searching for it. Sick "Cry now because you lost him or cry later because you have him."

"Cry now because you lost him or cry later because you have him."

#9 Jun 26 - 1PM

suzanne

UPDATE:

This is tough, I asked God to show me what to do, give me a path to take, then I found this site...then the hacker site. I felt it was a sign, he was going to shove me because I couldn't shove myself. Then they asked for $400.00 I decided not to pursue it. I feel like I am redirecting my moral compass if I do, and it's soooo not classy and against my personal standards. What a effing roller coaster my mind is riding. I can't reduce myself to that...I am better off refocusing and holding my head up high. But, somehow, I think I took a baby step in my journey to strength. Thanks all, for walking with me.

#10 Jun 26 - 12PM

Debra (not verified)

BEWARE! --a Pandora's Box

I had my N's password for awhile. He gave it to me without even realizing one day in a conversation, and although I knew I should not, I went into his e-mail and read and read and read..... it was a window into his evil personality. It's not a bad idea seeing exactly what you are dealing with and can provide impetus for your exit from his life, light the fire under your feet, and give you the closure that he will not. On the other hand, once you have the password, it will be difficult for you not to use it. If you are trying to go NC and not think about him anymore, and are reading his e-mails at the same time, it is going to be even harder for you to let go of him. You will be able to be in contact with him on a day to day basis and not even be talking to him.. In the end, having the password was not a good thing for me. I was able to see when he deleted me from his addresses and then put me back! Fortunately, when his new girlfriend got the password too and started sending me e-mails on his behalf, he changed it and I no longer have access.. Thank goodness!

#11 Jun 27 - 10AM (Reply to #13)

Jodie

Password

Mine was so stupid it took a 5th grader to figure out his password. You are right about it toying with your head and still remaining in contact although not speaking. What I did to stop the madness was then change his password so that he couldn't log in, he then had to make a new password that I didn't know. "Cry now because you lost him or cry later because you have him."

"Cry now because you lost him or cry later because you have him."

#12 Jun 26 - 12PM (Reply to #12)

Barbara (not verified)

I agree

when Psycho-Boy threatened me and my children I went to police. They blew me off but then the Computer Crimes Unit got involved. The day they pulled up all his casual-sex-wanted personal ads and the reviews of all the hookers he'd seen? That's when the non-stop vomitting started. I didn't sleep for days and had to be put on tranquilizers. Even today some of the things he said in those reviews & ads haunt me. And many of them were put up either during our emotional relationship or WELL BEFORE. Then the police and I watched him try to erase it all and say it never happened. It's ok police, my attorney, etc - all have copies & screenshots. I was almost over it when his fav. brothel was busted. A $2M a year operation. Much of his postings were used to help convict the madame. She's out now - back in business. Anyway - be very sure you really want to know what you're going to find. Don't you already have enough to know you NEED TO LEAVE? And for gosh sake's do NOT confront him with what you find UNTIL YOU ARE OUT!!!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/

#13 Jun 26 - 11AM

Barbara (not verified)

suzanne

no I don't. sorry. there has been a lot written on the net about them.

#14 Jun 26 - 10AM

suzanne

DONE!

OH MY GOSH...I did it, I sent in the request. I feel like my heart will fall out of my chest.

#15 Jun 26 - 10AM (Reply to #8)

malloryforest

let me know

Let me know if it works. I have wanted to do the same thing, but his account sends him an email if anyone tries to get onto his site or inquires about his password. Can hackers find a way to get onto their email without sending an email to the other person the email belongs to??? Let me know.

#16 Jun 26 - 11AM (Reply to #9)

Barbara (not verified)

mallory

write them and ask them

#17 Jun 26 - 10AM

suzanne

barbara

Do you, or anyone else for that matter, have any knowledge of anyone using them with success? SCARY STEPS! I need to breathe.

#18 Jun 26 - 10AM

Barbara (not verified)

suzanne

http://www.hiretohack.net/ GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#19 Jun 26 - 10AM (Reply to #2)

quietude (not verified)

wow

That got me thinking...I really don't think I want to know what my ex does or is saying (via email). I'm sure it would be hurtful no matter what. It would be too hard to handle. That being said, if I was involved in a legal battle, it would be good stuff to know.

#20 Jun 26 - 10AM (Reply to #3)

suzanne

quietude

We are still together...I had to know. or confirm I should say.

#21 Jun 28 - 10PM (Reply to #5)

Lisa E. Scott

Suzanne

I know what you're saying. It does help to know as much as possible so that you feel you are making a highly informed decision when you do leave. Just do NOT tell him what you are finding and make a decision soon. I think you already know the answer.

#22 Jun 26 - 10AM (Reply to #4)

quietude (not verified)

suzanne

Ya, I totally understand that type situation. If I was still with mine and I suspected stuff, I would have to know too!

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