Yeah, the ex-Psych professor dumped a young feminine 22 year old for a very butch 32 year old... uh, what?
What was funny (in hindsight) is HOW MANY compliments I got about my femininity (in contrast to the ex-P's manly girlfriend) AFTER the D&D. I NEVER thought of myself as the girly girl. It was always my younger sister who liked shopping for clothes, loved wearing dresses.... and it took the D&D to help me appreciate my femininity. Imagine that(!!!)
It sounds to me like he was/is very threatened by women/female power and intelligent women in general, but fascinated by them at the same time. So he got himself a "smart" female who doesnt really physically resemble a female in any way so he doesn't have to be so reminded that he settled on that which frightens him so.
A year after the D&D, the ex-P got the manly woman pregnant. With twins.
There's nothing more feminine than pregnancy.
A long-running joke at my college was "How would Mr. T--- handle a drag queen?" The drag queen would have the right equipment... but look so ladylike.
I'm glad I never dated the ex-P, let alone had sex with him, and that I was NEVER Mrs. T--!!!
Still shocked I saw him as marriage/genetic material. He did not swim in my gene pool, thank God.
Sam, my H likes to all me insane, nut job,bi polar,sick, attacker ect... I can go on for days here. I understand the point of this thread is to chuckle because we need to laugh sometimes. No, it sucks that the man I love calls me names and shit but I gotta tell ya, I KNOW HE IS WRONG so I am not insulted. Yes, I'm devastated that my marriage may be a sham and I will possibly soon go thru my 2nd divorce and I have a newborn but dammitt.....I'm not nuts so every now and then we can LOL at these pathetic ppl! One of my fav sayings of my husband is "I feel bad for the next guy". He always says that?? What is that? Ill never know?? Once I answered it I said "maybe the next guy won't be a selfish idiot and actually HELP ME pay bills and I won't act mad at him ever ". Ouch!
Mine always said 'i feel sorry for the next guy'......those exact words! Also,i never loved you....whenever we'd get into an argument,no matter how small....hed say,i dont love u and I never ever loved you..crazy shit.....i can finally laugh about it because it sounds like a little kid..plus,why would u want your wife or girlfriend to think that? Do u think I ever believed him after that?
Makes me wonder
Susan
Then this happened...
imabloke
new, sensative, but a namecaller can be funny
Mine always said 'i feel