Heeeeeee's baaaaaaaack!!

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#1 Sep 20 - 6PM
iAmMINE
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Heeeeeee's baaaaaaaack!!

He says....

Please excuse my belated reply

Monday, September 20, 2010 8:30 AM

From: "KM" HIS_EMAIL@yahoo.com
To: "MY_NAME " MY_EMAIL@yahoo.com

Hi MY_NAME,
I just got a newer computer with slightly different software and am having some problems figuring things out. I finally got frustrated and let it set for several days.

I respect and feel I somewhat understand and your wishes to not "socialize" When I was looking for your art I found an article in Sync. I'm so very sorry for the terrible things that happened in the past. I won't say I understand, but I too had some of these things happen to me when I was a young boy. I have never talked about it with anyone and I keep trying to forget about it.

To compound this, I am a Vietnam combat vet and have PTSD. I have been very reclusive for many years. I, for the most part just stay out here on "Hound Dog Hill" with my crew of rescued and abused animals. I go to town only on rare occasions, like when I need groceries or have other errands to do.

Some time in the future "they" will interview people who know me and they will say, "he wa

~~~~~ and then.....

Fw: I accidently pushed hit a key that prematurely send me e-mail
Monday, September 20, 2010 8:42 AM
From: "HIS_NAME "
To: “MY_NAME"

--- On Mon, 9/20/10, HIS_NAME wrote:

From: HIS_NAME
Subject: Please excuse my belated reply
To: "MY_NAME"
Date: Monday, September 20, 2010, 8:30 AM

Hi My Name,

I just got a newer computer with slightly different software and am having some problems figuring things out. I finally got frustrated and let it set for several days.

I respect and feel I somewhat understand and your wishes to not "socialize" When I was looking for your art I found an article in Sync. I'm so very sorry for the terrible things that happened in the past. I won't say I understand, but I too had some of these things happen to me when I was a young boy. I have never talked about it with anyone and I keep trying to forget about it.

To compound this, I am a Vietnam combat vet and have PTSD. I have been very reclusive for many years. I, for the most part just stay out here on "Hound Dog Hill" with my crew of rescued and abused animals. I go to town only on rare occasions, like when I need groceries or have other errands to do.

Some time in the future "they" will interview people who know me and they will say, "he wa

I'm sorry, I just fat fingered a key that prematurely sent this message to you.

As I was saying, they will say, "he was a quiet man".
I sort of came out of my shell at Darrell's party, I guess the wine loosened me up a bit. Anyway, I hope we can communicate via e-mail on occasion. It is not often that I find someone that understands my dry, somewhat vague, sense of humor. For example, when I called you "gumdrop" some asked you what that meant and you said, "that means he remembers my name".

HIS_NAME

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I spent about 30 minutes analyzin' it, embracing my newfound
knowledge and strengths... and even typing in my own "red flags"...

Then it "hit me"... my energy is worth more than this. I deleted
my Red flag post and skipped off to work on my art...

YAY! ~ i'm BEing a big girl now :)

Sep 21 - 2PM
iAmMINE
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My response to him

Good day to you, Wow, you've got a lot on your plate too. And it is my hope you have found a way to become self-aware and heal. This process really requires that we do it on our own and that is exactly where I am on this path of Self-Healing. I am very focused on my art right now and so I'll have to politely decline further communications at this time. MY_NAME ~~~~~ “The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don’t give them,” --she said, (taken from my final remarks in a Sync Weekly Magazine article about my art and mySelf :)

~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~

~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.

Sep 21 - 5PM (Reply to #15)
michele115 (not verified)
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Exceptional!

Exquisite...articulate...fantabulous! Upon reflection...yup...he's a narc...
Sep 22 - 12AM (Reply to #16)
iAmMINE
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THANKS michele115 !!

I thought you'd like that ;)

~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~

~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.

Sep 21 - 5PM (Reply to #12)
kiwi10
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that was SOOOO classy!!

that was SOOOO classy!!
Sep 22 - 12AM (Reply to #13)
iAmMINE
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Fierflie Thank You!!

You rock!

~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~

~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.

Sep 22 - 12AM (Reply to #14)
kiwi10
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YOU rock :)

YOU rock :)
Sep 21 - 8AM
Used
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IAMine

i too am a big girl now, i have joined this grown up club. more power to you..... IAMine won- narc nil!!!!! [the score]
Sep 21 - 9AM (Reply to #10)
iAmMINE
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used & Scores

Your reply made me smile, one reason for the humor in it and the other because you too are healing and moving into the "Now". KUDOS for you too!! ~~~~~ “The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don’t give them,” --she said, (taken from my final remarks in a Sync Weekly Magazine article about my art and mySelf :)

~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~

~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.

Sep 20 - 8PM
agnesmurphy17
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Does this say anything?

I just don't get it. I think no response is the best. Ignore him. Let him hang out with the dogs.
Sep 21 - 8AM (Reply to #8)
iAmMINE
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agnesmurphy17, I agree

Yeah, that's the nice thing about healing. Having the choice of who to let in our lives and who to leave out :) ~~~~~ “The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don’t give them,” --she said, (taken from my final remarks in a Sync Weekly Magazine article about my art and mySelf :)

~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~

~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.

Sep 20 - 8PM
Lisa E. Scott
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iAmMine

Good for you! "I spent about 30 minutes analyzin' it, embracing my newfound knowledge and strengths... and even typing in my own "red flags"... Then it "hit me"... my energy is worth more than this. I deleted my Red flag post and skipped off to work on my art... YAY! ~ i'm BEing a big girl now :)" YAY! I'M SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!
Sep 21 - 8AM (Reply to #6)
iAmMINE
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Lisa E. Scott, THANKS!!

Having you proud of me means a lot! Being proud of myself means even more :) Thanks again for all you do, for this site, your audios and all the resources made available to us here. I would still be healing, but not this fast without this support :) Thanks again! ~~~~~ “The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don’t give them,” --she said, (taken from my final remarks in a Sync Weekly Magazine article about my art and mySelf :)

~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~

~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.

Sep 20 - 7PM
gettinbetter
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Holy Cow

That whole thing screams NARC!
Sep 21 - 8AM (Reply to #4)
iAmMINE
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sick of it, Yes it does...

it actually wore me out picking out all the Red Flags ahahahahaha Keep Learning, Keep Healing! ~~~~~ “The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don’t give them,” --she said, (taken from my final remarks in a Sync Weekly Magazine article about my art and mySelf :)

~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~

~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.

Sep 20 - 6PM
michele115 (not verified)
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Yay!....

But he may not necessarily be a narcissist, just very lonely...then again...not YOUR problem. I'd decline him gently though...as someone with an illness, isolation is a trip, and it is difficult to try to reach out sometimes just to make pleasant talk...that may be what he's doing and not quite skilled...BUT RED FLAGS for sure...keep a SAFE distance.
Sep 21 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
iAmMINE
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michele115, RED FLAGS for sure

That's a kind thought: ~~"But he may not necessarily be a narcissist, just very lonely"~~ However, I'm seeing NARC all over this one for sure. I mean he doesn't appear to have an issue at all to open up. For someone who just met me once he's given me his whole life story in an effort to parallel with my own life story.... He's skilled for sure and I'll bet ya all this crap has worked before... not this time. He may not give up either as he may see me as being a "challenge". And there would have been a day I would have been quite entertained by all of this as well as doing my "part" in the challenge... and I see now that is how I personally opened the doors for this crap. But not again :) Keep Learning, Keep Healing! ~~~~~ “The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don’t give them,” --she said, (taken from my final remarks in a Sync Weekly Magazine article about my art and mySelf :)

~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~

~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.