Psycho Boy - he is hoovering again
Psycho Boy - he is hoovering again
Ok, my N just moved into the definite psycho category yesterday. I shared this with betteroff early, but thought I'd show y'all.
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If you can remember, on July 5th I was Final D&D'd by Narchead. He final words to me were
"I have decided that I no longer trust you"
and then about 4 paragraphs about how he no longer wanted ANY relationship with me of ANY kind. Oh, and since he is such a "great guy", he ended with "sorry to be so direct".
And he REFUSED my phone calls to discuss this conflict with him by phone. And said that because he doesn't trust me (remember, he decided that he could trust me because he couldn't trust that I would stay in the relationship despite being abused), that he couldn't talk to me on the phone and that I would have to submit my questions in writing or have a 3rd party on the line. O.M.G. After 23 years of "being his dearest and closest friend"
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Ok, on my bday in August, he does wish me a happy bday. And then yesterday I get this (remember I've been NC):
"LOML: Hope all's well! I am meeting with your bank tomorrow (James and 5 others) to discuss a bunch of things/companies .. they are sure to ask me about your new product launch ... can you give me a couple of bullet points on progress and on formal market release date so that my message is consistent with yours??"
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Ok, so he doesn't want a REAL relationship with me anymore. But he wants a FAKE, PRETEND relationship with me REALLY FAST SO HE CAN LOOK GOOD TO A BANK TO GET A JOB! I'm not GOOD enough for a real relationship with him, but by associating with me, he can look great and get more work.
And why in the hell would my bank ask him (who is out of my company) about my product launch??? If they want to know about my product launch, they will call me, since we talk EVERY WEEK.. no, he wanted to know because he knew they wouldn't ask him, but so he could bring it up and pretend like we were still best friends and business partners and still look like such a "great guy" making an impact at SOOOO many companies around the Bay.
So he can't have a relationship with me, but he still wants to continue to use me; after the final D&D. Still trying to extract as much supply out of me while giving me NOTHING back.
Reminds me of the garbage can story that was told today!
I'm sorry, but does this have a hint of psycho to you guys? It is like they can say the absolutely most cruel and hateful thing to you in the world, destroy your emotions, destroy your relationship and dance back in as if nothing happened and use you again.
They are all bouncing balls.
Happy
It is typical MO to steal
almostlydia
very true
Yes it is TOTALLY psycho...
unreal, isn't it?
NO CONTACT!
NOOO!!! Let me be him:
betteroff
Huh?
And besides that...wtf is up
Better off and loveofmylife
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Betteroff
I have one....
michele115
OK, listen... you can
regards
And for this I will always
OMG Betteroff
I speak jive..
"They are BORING"
Susan
Susan
Yeah, that was just like
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