I'm with you on that. My ex N told me he hated me, never wanted to talk to me again, and called me every name in the book. I've been NC for 7 days. He has been texting and leaving voicemails about how he misses me and wants to be friends. Then today, I get this email:
"I hope all is well. I appreciate your thoughts, and I enjoyed our time together. I am sure we will see each other out, and I hope you know I won't feel awkward if you are with someone else I do really hope you find the right guy. I know that we weren't right for each other.
I hope all is well and like I said if you ever want to go for a run or whatever let me know.
GOOD LUCK ERICA, AND THANKS FOR A GREAT YEAR! : ) "
What a crazy! He keeps asking me to go to the park. I think that he wants to kill me at the park. Lol!
this is the exsact same email i got from my narc ... at first sight to they lay person it seems perfectly acceptable right , but we know it is laced with poison . It is d&d at its most incidious finest .Arogent , aloof .. no closure .... the only diffrence betweeen this email and mine is youre run in the park was my "work on youre boat "...his words where "let me know if you want any work on youre boat done as i know you dont have many people to relie on ".... basicly saying i have no friends .. well i do have friends and i had a big party on the boat which he wasnt invited to...HA !
They all seem to operate the same. Every email, text and voicemail that I've gotten from him since I went NC is all about him. I've kept some of the voicemails from him and he's either screaming at me or telling me that he misses me. What a crazy nut job! I don't need the drama.
Day 9 NC!!!
Aaaaargh. .... I had similar thing saying wanted to be friends and could go running still. Tempted to reply: Thanks but I don't need to run with you, I need to run AWAY from you! Are these guys manufactured in a narc factory somewhere? They are like those dolls who only have a limited number or random phrases (I posted on this under well known phrases)
ok, this is freaky. Yours sounds just like mine. The "nice guy" words and everything contrasted with the venom....hmmmm...and yours wanted to go running in the park. My N's MO is to pickup on girls running in the park. Where are you from????
ok, different, same MO! He only becomes romantic with petite, muscular marathon runners who run in the park! It is THE only similarity of anyone he has seen in the last 30 years!
here too. And chemistry.com. Not sure what else. But that is the only way they can get massive amounts of women (ummm...supply) into their "funnel" as mine calls it.
no, i'm not. but may be joining soon since my son just went to college and that seems to be a good way to keep track of what is going on with him...so maybe in a few weeks.
"You use "in which" too
LOL!!
I'm with you
Wisernow
Scoop
Running! !
Too bad you can't respond
wisernow30
Cincinnati, OH. Maybe we are
bay area
My Ex N's MO is match.com.
match.com
Loveofmylife are you on face
scoop facebook
The black funnel of doom.
susan