forgiveness
forgiveness
I don't advocate forgiving someone who hurt you before you go through the anger stage. For me, I'm thinking it may be healing to me because it is the ultimate in letting go.
I can forgive him for saying he didn't love me when he married me. I can forgive him for beating me, and for cheating. I know I can. There is a song called 'oh father' by madonna where she says 'maybe someday, when I look back i'll be able to say you didn't mean to be cruel, somebody hurt you to'. It's not ok what he did and I won't ever let him hurt me again, but I don;t want to carry him around in my head anymore because i'm angry and i don't understand why he couldn't just love me. Anyway, here is an interesting article on the benefits or forgiveness (for the person doing it, not the forgivee)
love you guys.
Fierflie
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Fierflie
i do feel lighter that was a
Fierflie
clueless
I thought I am justified in
Who knew Ms. Fierflie that
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You made me laugh thinking
jesus!!
Oh Fierflie, your response
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god and isn't that the
yeah, well
Actually, no one! ;-)
oops forgot to post the link!
Brie Said it
Michelle
if it makes me feel better
You can do whatever you want
Fierflie
maybe you think by
You are going to put
THis is a lovely article,
Wow, Briseis you really hit
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
i think your anger is great
Oh, I have no intention of
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
It's like forgiving a bear
Fierflie/5year old...