Why he kept my pics on his FB?
Why he kept my pics on his FB?
Left my ex 7 months ago because I caught him cheating and went nc, then talked to him, then nc until Dec when he asked to be friends. He was in 12 steps trying to recover.
I agreed to some contact to because I wanted to believe he was trying to recovery from addiction.
Anyway, all of our contact was email and txt, no phone (only the last call last sat which will be last of all contact ever).
In any case, I asked him about a month ago why he kept all my/our pics up on his FB page (my male friend is still his friend and he told me he saw them) and he said "Because I like to remember you and the good times, why should I take them down?"
He then asked if I took his pics down and I said "YES OF COURSE, why would I keep pics and memories of someone who cheated on me"
He was hurt and said "Fine, can't tell you how to heal, but I am not like you"
Are the pics like trophies?
I also need to mention, I realized that 3 months after I left him, I still had his password to his web history. I thought he changed that years ago, but nope, tried it and it worked.
I was able to see his web history for the past 12 months .
He was NOT on any single sites or anything weird, but he was on FB A LOT, and he would go to my pics on friends sites or on a public site I'm on and look at my pic over and over and over!
And to be honest, he was home pretty much every weekend alone. He would not get on his pc if he had company.
He even google mapped some girl's address who invited him to a party on FB and he never went.
What up with that?
This got me out of my stupor
The real self was killed off a long time ago...
yes trophies!
Yes, part of the game, but I
The whole time the narc had
The whole time the narc had
You're brutal!! hahahah! No,
The point is.....
stay~strong
Classic...
Slow pull
Ok, I know narcs are
Kool aid comes in many
Kool aid comes in many
No, not all narcs are created equal...
Truly
You are wrong! read my other
Trulybroken
Truly in time you will come
Truly in time you will come
Truly broken
I never said he was
Trulybroken
F that, this is not tough
I'm 43, and I've been Narced,
What exacty are you trying to
It is very simple
Truly
Truly,
spinning
I am going NC for life which
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