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I am new to the site, but have been reading for sometime. You women are wonderful and I am so glad I found ya!I will write my story in time. I cut off contact him when he left, he was a cheating narc. Didnt realize at the time he was a narc, but knew he had serious problems. I cut off contact because I couldnt do the yo-yo relationship no more. We had been married for 20 miserable years. Karma in all this, he left his wife and kids, but the OW is still 8 months later engaged to her man. She didnt leave her previous relationship. So he is getting scraps now like he gave me for 20 yrs. I have worked through a lot by reading here and being inspired by you guys. NC was so hard in the beginning but I think I was in fight or flight mode. I flew like a bird, cause I knew I could handle him no more emotionally. I wanted more from a relationship eventually. Although I am not ready to date I look at men at work and (here's my nagging question) wonder are all men narcs? I work in a factory and see cheating, narky men all the time. Don't know if its because I am looking for it in them. Are all cheaters narcs? My narc was really immature for his age. Do all men cheat? Is all I got to look forward to is a cheater that is maybe more mature than the one I had? Another reason this is on my mind is right after everyone learned I was divorcing the married men swarmed on me. These men never acted like this when I was married. It was really disappointing because I thought a lot of some of the guys. That acted like because I was divorced I was deperate. Thank you all. Yaw have really saved my sanity and made me realize I wasnt crazy.
Welcome to you! No, not all
Welcome redhead! No not all
Yea, he thought it was ok
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