Almost got sucked in again…
Almost got sucked in again…
Narc2 is probably low in supply + mad because I went on a spiritual retreat and took the baby with me.
It all started last Wednesday before I left for the retreat…He texted inquiring how long I was going to be gone with the baby, blah, blah, blah…I only responded twice and stated the same facts… and ignored the rest of the texts.
Last night, he started texting me again talking about changing visitation for today because he had the day off, I replied, “if you are not able to pick her up Saturday then you will see her on Sunday”.(Because I had her last Sunday he was allowed a make up day) He kept texting his narc nonsense, I replied again,stated the same thing and ignored the rest of the texts.
This morning at 8:am he started texting again, you are only hurting the baby by keeping her away from her father…blah, blah, blah…I got so mad by the BS and wanted to tell him off so bad but decided to ignore all the texts and post here instead.
I am at the anger stage,(my therapist congratulated me on it because he sees it as a breakthrough in my recovery), but I feel as if the narc is testing me,I just want to chew his head off… but then again, I’m doing it by maintaining LC and no giving him any supply.
Grymel
My hat is off to you Grymel,
Grymel
Janie
Great Grymel! Thanks for
Grymel, I second your therapist
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