..and another email
..and another email
Just got back and here is another reply - it is soo easy to believe and want to believe they are NOT narcassistic and that it is all me - HELP - his 2nd response to my 'ephiphany' email which I should not have sent.
I dont have to explain again to you guys but he was the one yelling at me and going crazy on his birthday as I had sent a text to his best friend letting his friend know that it was his birthday.
There are so many things I want to send back and reply to, ref
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BTW in case you wanted to know. Yes, the email bothered me. Maybe you can sleep better now.
I have to say.. sure doesn't sound like love to me. Sounds like you were trying to fix me, tolerate me etc. So, sounds like you should be glad to be rid of me. I won't get into details on what really happened in some of the situations you point out below, or highlight what I believe are your issues because I have found you don't listen and think it has to do with me or anyone else besides you so it will be worthless information to you. And unlike you, I don't have a "narcissistic" need to hurt you or control you.
I do however want to make a statement to your therapist if that is who shared the pale of water story with you. (if it was a friend over drinks disregard) However if it was a therapist or psychologist... then tell them this "Get some new material! They have used that line too many times and reveled at the response from their clients so much that they have lost their way in truly helping their patients. They need to go back to studying and seeing other therapists to help get them back on the track of helping the people that come to them rather than attempt to get their satisfaction through having one of their patients find something they said clever. They can start to explore their own self esteem issues. They should take better pride in their work" Now... if it was just a friend over drinks... tell her...well... cool analogy.
And to clarify.. I am no "trophy" and I am no "devil" as you point out below. I am just a man. However, I have thoughts and feelings of my own that don't seem to line up to well with yours. I am not good with people that avoid. I don't like people to try to put their problems on someone else. I don't like to be manipulated. I also don't like someone yelling and cussing at me while trying to imply it is somehow justified (especially on my birthday). That is why I asked you to leave and that is why I couldn't see any cause in opening any of the gifts. I didn't hear from you.. until this message below.. so there was really no need to call you.
Partially sarcastic and partially sincere.... I am glad you had your epiphany.
WOW MOORE
Manipulation
Journey on...
Oh my good God ! I have a
I should try that!
Journey on...
Hahaha
he also admits that he is
Gosh...they are all so alike
We broke up 2 weeks ago, and
Can you put the narc in the