another visit with the shrink...
another visit with the shrink...
Today we discussed my need to diagnose him. She said gettinbetter you have told me you think hes borderline,narcissistic, and bipolar. Lets break this down into more simplistic terms. He's not a nice person, he isnt good for you and he makes you feel bad. We dont need to diagnosed him who knows what he is. So we talked about why I need to know what he is. She thinks that it is a why for me to stay connected.
She reiterated that problems are anxiety/ocd based and that she definitely thinks i need medication for that. We also discussed all of my other OCD behaviors. She said I dont know if its that you love him so much, I think its more an addiction to the situation and resolving it.
She also believes I have some self esteem issues and we discussed that as well. At the end I ask what do you think about me? She said I think your are a highly intelligent attractive women with some deep anxiety issues and I felt good like air had been put in my tires and as I thought about it that in and of itself would indicate that I have self esteem issues. I have always been hyper focused on the way I look. I said OMG am I a Narc? She said Oh my goodness no. Like I said I think you have OCD/Anxiety.
So that sums it up. I recap these visits just in case some of you who are not in therapy might identify with something I write and it may help you
Thanks everyone for your
I really appreciate
I saw my shrink today and
gettinbetter
gettin better, thank you
spinning
Spinning your welcome. Is
"So we talked about why I
What the HELL happened?!
yes Ally she said exactly
I get what your therapist is saying
GB
Ally & eveyone, One day at a time...
Caligirl
Ally
Exactly! I know deep down
"Perhaps you should consider...
Yes ally that is exactly it.
Yep
Ally - Exactly!
ditto, Ally and Michele!
spinning
Yes with the perfection
My therapist said something
Ally I identified and agree....
I would say that in this case...
On a funny note I think her
sounds like you have a good
Yes I like her a lot