The pictures are of him without his shirt on, tanning himself in the backyard!! I am laughing so hard right now, I am crying. My sons are asking me "what is so funny mommy?"
Got two more texts today...One claiming that he feels so F---king empty, and in the next one he refers to me as "babe." Oh, her comes the third of the evening.....He is afraid he sons will hate him.
I know I am not suppose to read these, but I must say, they are more entertaining than a thursday night sitcom.
LOL, you canNOT make this shit up!! Tanning photos...OMG, run back to him Mallory, how could you not??? How can you RESIST??? lmao!
He got one thing right, he is so f-ing empty!
I dont' think you should reply but it would be SO funny just to agree with all his drama texts. I feel so f-ing empty. "yeah, you are empty." I'm afraid my sons will hate me..."yeah, they probably will."
OMG. then he'd be like how can you SAY that???
Better off, I am running. Can't resist those hot photos. I can't imagine sending photos of myself to somone that I hurt as badly as he hurt me. Think about how much you must love yourself to send photos!
I woulf love to be able to respond the way you mentioned, but you are right..he wouldn't get it. I would just be awful and mean and angry. Maybe I should send his hot photos to his GF. I am sure she would enjoy her "true Love's" pictures!!!
Make sure your attorney sees them.
DEMAND your attorney call his and tells him that he must CEASE & DESIST from sending them. And have your attorney write him a letter, cc'd to his attorney saying the same.
He'll crap himself that you showed them to your attorney.
He honestly thinks you are going to sit there and "take" his ridiculous mind-f**king nonsense. Don't. He needs a little BOUNDARY SPANKING. And he's given you enough ammo to do it the 'RIGHT WAY'!!!
Have your attorney write that letter and DO NOT LET THE ATTORNEY TALK YOU OUT OF IT. What he's doing is highly inappropriate for someone in a divorce situation. If your attorney still doesn't see how incredibly pathological he is and do what you ask? GET A NEW ATTORNEY! PLEASE.
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My husband has not hired an attorney, He is representing himself. On one level, this may be good, on the other hand it is maddening!!! It is harder to whip him into shape. He disregards everything! He has not sent any financial information to my lawyer. He has not filled out his paperwork. I bet he forgets to show up on friday for the masters! He is just sitting back in la la land. I am not sure how this servfes him, but iot does make things more difficult in some ways, on my end!
Whew boy, this may be over quicker than you think. Judges don't like BS in the courtroom, their time is valuable...that's why there are professionals called attorneys who know how to present evidence and respond appropriately. It's a good thing for you, legally. Just be careful and protect yourself during this high drama/emotional time.
So typical. So laughable! This is going to be a complete disaster for him. The judge will really be annoyed too because he won't be prepared. It still isn't reality to him yet. As it gets closer to Friday, I predict that he will get more desperate and/or angry.
He keeps telling me that my lawyer is working for both of us, even though my lawyer has made it very clear to him that she is working for ME! I think you are right, that on some level he has not accepted this reality. What did he think I was doing when I filed for divorce last fall! Honestly, i think this is another manipulative move on his part. I think he feels that I will see him as trying to be co-operative because he has not hired a lawyer, and therefore I will not screw him. I also think he is too embarrassed to sit in front of a lawyer and tell them the whole story. I think that is to much public humiliation.
I am asking for everything I want. I have nothing to loose. Worse case scenario...he hires a lawyer. The idea of him having to be deposed, GF deposed, work getting involved, etc. would be too much for him to bear. I have nothing to hide, and have nothing to be ashamed of. Fortunately I have kept a journal from day one, and have given the lawyer copies of journal, emails, a time-line and any other evidence.
Honestly, I am not in anyway looking to hurt him. I just do not want myself or my children to be hurt anymore.
Good for you for sticking to your guns. You're right, he is trying to manipulate you and he can't deal with reality. My husband has lied to both of his attornies, doesn't read the visitation schedule, doesn't understand the court proceedings, and acts like he is an innocent victim, even with all of the sh''t he has pulled. It is really hard to believe that he thinks he can get away with.
Wow, he's pulling out ALL the stops, isn't he?
When all else fails, at least I'm still attractive, right? PFFT!
How pathetic! You sure have a lot of ammunition for court mallory. Maybe you can do a slide show with all of those hot photos and see what the judge says.
I agree, he's a typical Narc. I'm sure you can practically sit back in court on Friday and let him bury himSELF. Just be cool, calm, collected, and prepared...you will do just fine.
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LOL, you canNOT make this
Better off
mallory
Barbara...
court
Representing self
Representing self
Court
he's on overload