Are you sitting down?

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#1 Jun 30 - 6PM
hitandrun
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Are you sitting down?

I got contacted by the producer for a famous TV court show featuring the infamous female judge. They look for weird court cases in small claims.

I talked to them, but made no commitment.

They called my ex jacka$$, I mean if I had any doubts he was a narc, they are ALL GONE.

He said he would be delighted to come on the show and he does not owe me any money.

WTF? I have documentation out the ying-yang.

And, if we did go on the show and I won, it would not appear on his record and he would not have to pay me...the show pays.

Unbelievable.

I'll take a chance with our legal system.

I don't want my life ripped apart on TV.

Can you say delusional?

INSANE!!!!!!!!!

Jul 1 - 12PM
hitandrun
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Update

Talked to a lawyer in the state where my case is. He was really very helpful and coached me on what to say. The law is rarely black and white, so he says I have a 50/50 chance and said I did all the right things. I was very business like about the whole thing. He walked me through how to look up judgments against people and said he wants me to consult him through the process probono. Wise Words from the attorney:" Don't waste any more of your time thinking about this man. You dodged a bullet. Be thankful."
Jul 1 - 3PM (Reply to #14)
Lisa E. Scott
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Hitandrun

This is so good to hear. Good for you! Your lawyer is very wise indeed: "Don't waste any more of your time thinking about this man. You dodged a bullet. Be thankful." I'm so happy you got away. xoxo
Jun 30 - 11PM
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hitandrun

I had no idea that's how that show worked. Good for you! Use those instincts! http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview nolongercontrolled
Jun 30 - 9PM
GIJ
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Good for you hitandrun!!

No wonder he wants to go on this show - he wins either way!! What a sham of a show to pay for people who screw others. Of course, I'm sure it's the only way anyone would agree to air their dirty laundry on TV. I feel you are making the right choice by truly holding him accountable and letting the system work for you. And besides, who wants to add insult to injury so publicly? Can you imagine how he would behave?? Next thing you know, he'd probably post it on YouTube - his 15 minutes of fame, even if he lost! Good for you. You sound strong and determined. Keep at it Sister!
Jun 30 - 10PM (Reply to #11)
hitandrun
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Thanks GIJ

I'm still shaking my head, mouth open. I appreciate the support. These guys are beyond comprehension.
Jun 30 - 9PM
betty2020
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God i just love reading your

God i just love reading your posts hitandrun. This is just so classic. He is really a piece of shit. I am laughing my ass off at this dude. He is just to text book obvious. Insane without a doubt!

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

Jun 30 - 10PM (Reply to #8)
hitandrun
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betty2020

When I heard he was willing to go on the show and told the producer he did not owe me anything I just about sh*t a brick!!! I mean, it is so black and white. Forget how he dumped me in a really inhuman, cowardly way. The facts,without bringing in all the other stuff, are indisputable. This really knocked some sense into my brain. Just sitting here, shaking my head going WTF???? I'd bet money he's calling all his little buddies to tell them he's gonna be on TV, get a free trip, and teach me a lesson. Sorry buddy...you'll get a phone call from the producer tomorrow. You're going to REAL court.
Jun 30 - 11PM (Reply to #9)
betty2020
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Oh yes. REAL court for this

Oh yes. REAL court for this prick... These guys really think the world is at their disposal. Im sure he is yucking it up thinking he is gonna get ya good. What a joke. This dude needs a good reality check. Its just too bad that they are just to stupid to even get it.

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

Jun 30 - 7PM
NancyM
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Insane

It's like life is just one big circus trip for them, isn't it? It's no wonder many of us end up tripping over into crazyland ourselves. It's just lalaland to them, and that's all it ever will be.

Nevergoback

Jun 30 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
hitandrun
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Insane in the Membrane

Insane in the brain...some song I heard before. This is/was the straw that broke the camels back for me. No more longing, no more thinking I'm a big f*ck up and messed our realtionship up. No more questioning if he's a Narc/Psychopath. Real court should be interesting : )
Jun 30 - 11PM (Reply to #3)
Lisa E. Scott
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hitandrun

I'm so glad you're at that point now where you have total clarity about him. No effin way would you ever want him back. What a complete idiot for wanting to air dirty laundry on tv like that. You know he's all excited about it and telling his friends, like you said. It is incomprehensible the nerve they have, isn't it? They are certifiable, that's for sure. I can't wait for you to burst his bubble tomorrow and tell him you're taking him to real court. Ha!
Jun 30 - 11PM (Reply to #4)
hitandrun
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Lisa

I won't be bursting his bubble, the producer will. I'm not talking to his Narc-ass : ) Yes, the clarity has finally got to my logical mind and overoad my emotions. Thank God!
Jun 30 - 11PM (Reply to #5)
Lisa E. Scott
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Yey!

I'm so glad. Clarity is amazing, isn't it?! Oh, and yes, can't wait for the Producer to burst his bubble, not you! Ha!
Jul 1 - 12AM (Reply to #6)
better off
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Hell yeah. That will

Hell yeah. That will totally piss him off and he can't do a damn thing about it. Except show up in REAL court with a REAL judge and pay REAL money to the REAL you. Now, THAT I WOULD pay to see, lol!