A bit confused about my future
A bit confused about my future
Dear girls,
I do not write much, but I read all of you every day.
Seven months have passed. I look around me. I did not die as I thought. I actually live in a better apartment : I decided to do the moving to have a new start and it was definitely a good idea. I have got a new cat, she is absolutely gorgeous
:-))) and my son is happy. By the way, all the teachers of my son KEEP telling me how my son has improved this year at school, how he is happier and bright. This year his mum is no more focused on ....him. And it shows.
I came back to my faith which actually saved my life. I have attended a Biblical school course and I got good grades. I will finish my first year in June. I have met new caring people, two very special friends. I am a candidate in the next administrative elections in my little village. I have worked without missing a day : I even put on for my little pupils a drama at school based on "The Three Mosqueteers" which was a big success.
I am planning my vacation. A working one, as money is tight. My ex husband will have my son for some weeks and I will be on holiday from work, and I dread this-lonely and no work. I have sent applications here and there, my dream is to fly and work in Israel. I have tried the SarEl but I am too old for the kibbutz program :-(((
But basically this evening I am...not sad, just a bit of melancholy. Sometimes I think we all here are overreacting. They are really hollow and SICK. They cannot love not even feel joy. What on earth are we doing here always speaking of these beasts, we should think to our lives!
But I think also that I am not dating. I do not WANT to date. Is this normal? I had permanent on my hair yesterday :-) a spring's folly. Everyone keeps telling me how nice I am looking. And I do not want to date.
Something in me is changed for ever.
And I hate this thought. I have already explained that he stole what he could from me. My thought and my diary, my body and my feelings...he has stolen everything. I feel deprived and I feel outraged. He even did it again, carcking my email and facebook profile for the second time less than a month ago.
He obviously is not happy of my NO CONTACT decision.
My faceook profile now is even richer than before: the police report on him has changed number-my solicitor has explained to me it means that MY report has been clearly ADDED to other ones already existing on him. He is being investigated and is unaware of it. Thay have evidences, otherwise, in my country legal sysyem, everything would have already been archived. It works this way here. It is slow, painfully slow, but it works. I will get my justice.
But somehow it is not enough.
Why do I feel this way? Please help me. I am 40. Will I really love again? Or is this a lie I keep telling myself?
Why do I feel this way? Why do I STILL allow him to make me feel this way?
God, help all of us.
I'll do the translations!
You need a sound effect of a
Progress not Perfection
Dearest Barbara, thank you
I will still ask my Rabbi
Thank you dear Barbara,
Mariline
Gorgeous is as gorgeous does!
Sashaines
Agreed. They aren't even
Ladies
The Stare
"You're the most beautiful
better off
You got it, Barbara!
Hilarious!
Mariline
Dearest Lisa, you are right,
Mariline
Mariline
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