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#1 Oct 18 - 1PM
shortway
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Day 3 NC...

Feeling good today again...3 days no contact..No down's yet....Haven't looked at his or OW Fb page,haven't asked my friends to....Haven't felt need to contact him...I have nothing to say to him..Instead..what's on my to-do list...and my sister is getting married in a few weeks..I am not at all sad I don't have a date..Making progress..thanks to you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Little by littel..I realized that having contact..was just plain abuse..his way to abuse,suppress me,keeping me knocked down,depressed..so he could move on with OW and keep me here wondering,sulking,begging...
Not now sucka!

Oct 19 - 5AM
jen79
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Hey shortway

We are both the same days on NC. Today is day 4 for us! Hugs!
Oct 19 - 5AM
michele115 (not verified)
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Shortway

Sending you love and support on your Day 4! Hang in there...
Oct 19 - 12AM
gettinbetter
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Yea Shortway!

So now you get that Shortway is gonna have to take the Longway! LOL!
Oct 19 - 10AM (Reply to #12)
shortway
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Lol yep!...Thanks guys...:)

Lol yep!...Thanks guys...:)
Oct 18 - 3PM
shortway
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I"m rockin the NC..rockin it

I"m rockin the NC..rockin it out!
Oct 18 - 2PM
chickon2
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"Not now sucka!" Love

"Not now sucka!" Love it..Say it loud , say it proud.. I guess the only REAL revenge is NO contact what so ever with these jokers...
Oct 18 - 2PM
iAmMINE
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YAY!!!

U GO GIRL!!!! ~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~ ~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them, --she said, (taken from my final remarks in a Sync Weekly Magazine article about my art and mySelf

~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~

~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.

Oct 18 - 2PM
Alive
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You

go girl...YYEEAAHHHx
Oct 18 - 2PM
desprathousewife
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Good girl shortway

You are winning the battle, won't be long before you've won the war :) I'm waving the victory flag already here. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2H5uWRjFsGc I added a song that always inspires me when I'm feeling GOOD, hope you like it too x
Oct 18 - 2PM (Reply to #6)
shortway
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And that is a good song!..I

And that is a good song!..I haven't heard the song in a while...I get knocked down but I get up again..!..And I'm back up baby..:)
Oct 18 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
shortway
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Thank you!!!!!! kisses

Thank you!!!!!! kisses
Oct 18 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
desprathousewife
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Pleasure

I posted it on my facebook after he'd knocked me down literally, made me laugh and I so needed to at the time. It's so good to laugh again :) kisses backatcha girl, and keep up the good work MWAH
Oct 18 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
shortway
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yes it is!!..yep.even though

yes it is!!..yep.even though I never had physical things with him,the emotional/verbal,literally knocked me down to the ground..i've slowly crawled my way up..now I'm standing..I"m not going down that quick again bucko..You got me when I was down when you cheated and beat me into the ground on top of that..Never again..Cause now I'm ready for you:)
Oct 18 - 2PM (Reply to #5)
desprathousewife
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That's the spirit

We take so much and then suddenly wake up and think ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. This site, and the wonderful people on it are such an inspiration :) NC is AWESOME and gives us back our power :) :) :)