D&D as "closure"??
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May 5 - 9AM
D&D as "closure"??
At Yelp LA, there's a discussion titled "How to break up." Some people are suggesting that it's OK to be a total jerk when breaking up with someone. They're basically saying that brutality is OK, so there will be "no false sense of hope." Certainly,one can break up without a "false sense of hope" without there being devaluing and discarding? Are we in such a narcissistic society that D&Ding is now considered a normal, adult way of ending relationships?
I wanted closure by congratulating my ex-N on his engagement, and saying "better happy with her, than unhappy with me"--and we'd go happily our separate ways, but my ex-N threw a tantrum anyhow.
What do you think?
Susan32........here's what i think..........
Good quote!
i couldn't get any closure....
Life is short
sure it is
Your replies often make me
Funny,I brought up "V" in another post
closure
Would've loved an apology
Apology
That's the tragedy
mirroring
Well, he did back off...
why bother
no apology - ever
I got an apology. It means
Peace. J
And you call yourself a "nice guy"???
janet
Epitome of Mediocrity
apologies
me too
Apologies
Apologize Never
Crazy cra-cray
closure
Alternate ending... I almost dumped my ex-N...
susan
That's why he was called "different"
"Different"
spinning
Better Off is right... No