ENERGY VAMPIRES.......

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#1 Mar 1 - 4AM
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ENERGY VAMPIRES.......

they're soul sucking vampires.....i've had this discussion with several victims of Narcs and Psychopaths...and i see a trend....these monsters literally suck the life out of us!!..and some of them can do it long distance...the 'no contact' rule does not apply to an energy vampire...because many of them can suck us dry from a remote location....they can literally tune into us..and take our energy.....think about it...the Narc is gone....but suddenly...he's on your mind..just pops into your mind for no real reason....and you can't shake him....sound familiar?.....next thing you know you have a pounding headache...or your exhausted...depeleted...sound familiar?...

"A psychic vampire, also commonly referred to as an energy or psionic vampire, is a person with the ability to "feed" off of the psychic energy or life force of other humans or animals. The theory is that these people absorb the life force or qi (pronounced ch'i) of others in order to gain energy for themselves

If an energy vampire has attacked you, you'll suffer from one or more of these symptoms: dizziness and mild to severe headaches, a lack of energy and motivation, a depressed mood or irritable nature, panic attacks or even the onset of a physical illness.

Most psychic vampires fall into one of four personality categories. There are those who take a victimized stance on life, constantly viewing the world as their enemy. Another common vampire personality is the NARCISSIST, someone who lacks empathy for others and constantly places their own desires first. The controlling vampire is extremely opinionated and attempts to invalidate any opinions that don't coincide with their own. The borderline personality has a love/hate relationship with the world and most other people. They will idolize you one moment and reject you completely the next.

A psychic vampire does not need to be physically close to you in order to work. Some psi-vampires can operate over the phone or from a distance. If you constantly feel drained after speaking to someone over the telephone, they may be feeding on your energy as you talk"

i had long ago seen this in the psychonarc.....and yesterday it came up again while talking to a friend who is also the victim of a psychopath....i was saying how the night before i had awakened in the night and literally felt the psychonarc draining me by remote...and she said the same thing had often happened to her....but of course she wondered if she was crazy.....nope....not crazy.....they can actually make us miserable and tired without even getting physically near us.........

Mar 29 - 1AM
NancyM
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Vampire.

Wow, my ex N loved superhero movies but hated (refused to watch) vampire movies. Do you all think this was a case of what he wanted to be vs what he was??? Interesting thought.

Nevergoback

Mar 29 - 1AM (Reply to #23)
Kelly
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Vampire movies

My last narc wrote screenplays about vampires. Loved them.
Mar 29 - 2AM
Kelly
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The Vampire for sure!

Vampire characteristics: 1) They cannot see their own reflection My narc was good looking on the outside - but that was just a mask. The mirror could never show him his true self. Inside he is hideous. At least with mine, he had a skin deformity on half his face until 5 years ago. I think it's how he still sees himself, but the mirror doesn't reflect it. Spooky 2) The need to be invited in They need to put on a good act so you will let them in. Once they are inside, good luck getting them out! (Yeah he might be physically gone one day, but letting them go emotionally, well, here we are aren't we?) 3) They survive on blood People are objects to be used and dried up - narc supply 4) They are immortal They are soulless - dead! Parasitic. Not human. They don't die like we do. We can be defeated emotionally. They just go on and on . . moving on to the next victim. 5) They are seductive Oh boy are they seductive. Most intense romantic I could ever experience. I don't think that will ever happen again. 6) They are afraid of crucifixes Well, not all of us are Catholic, but you get the picture. Reverse reactions. You do something loving and good and they attack you for it as though you have done something sinister. They are afraid of love and intimacy. It makes their fangs come out. 7) Garlic keeps them away . . . Ummmm got nothing here. Mine liked garlic ;P
Mar 29 - 3AM (Reply to #21)
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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Narcmagnet..all so true..

the really can't see their reflection...and they really are dead and feed off the living...and must have a constant supply or they turn to dust!...and yes..they do trick us into inviting them in...... they are as close to the monsters of lore and legend as it gets......
Mar 25 - 7AM
dysenchanted
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Black Magic

They are practitioners of black magic,sometimes consciously, sometimes unconsciously. It's quite effective either way. If you are a person of faith in anything from crystals to Christ, you can use it to combat them. Evil is a spiritual condition best addressed on that level.
Mar 25 - 3AM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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like clockwork, Wallaby and Amazed...

if i feel a sudden onslaught from the vampire psycho, i know it's bad news...usually for him.... and it's recently been proven,at least to me...for well over a week i could feel his evil presence..him sucking me dry from a distance...i was having nightmares about him..was constantly on edge and jumpy... it was an indication ot me that his life wasn't going well,and it prompted me to search court records..and sure enough..there he was...being evicted... and i have come to the conclusions that this time he is without a new victim to use as a remedy to his situation, because i can feel him cranking up the volume... i know that in my case, that the psycho has a connection to me and a hold on me that can't be broken with distance or lack of actual contact...and it's maddening..... if either of you feel you have any success with 'exorcising' your vampire...let me know...because so far nothing has worked in my case......
Mar 24 - 7PM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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Amen, Amazed........

i totally believe you, because i've had similar experiences...some of the them have some sort of twisted psychic connection to us...that WE cannot break....if people can believe in the power of positive thinking, then they also should realize that there is a flip side to that....the power of NEGATIVE thinking...these monsters can become obsessively focused on us...and i believe that their hatred for us can actually manifest in our lives....i KNOW it can.... how we can protect ourselves is something i'm not sure of..i haven't had any luck with anything so far.... here are a couple of links to articles about protecting yourself from psychic vampires..this is something i myself am very interested in, and i am firmly convinced that this is what is happening with me, and others...... if ever want to discuss this with me, or feel in need of validation, please ask Barbara for my email address.... http://www.examiner.com/x-1786-NY-Spirituality-and-Paranormal-Examiner~y2009m10d6-How-to-protect-yourself-from-psychic-vampires http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1760384/how_to_protect_yourself_from_psychic.html
Mar 24 - 8PM (Reply to #17)
wallaby (not verified)
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Thanks for these links

Am beginning visualizations immediately!
Mar 24 - 7PM (Reply to #16)
Amazed
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I will read these articles narcnarcwhosethere

They impregnate themselves into our dreams, and have some how obtained a sense of control over us, I don't quite understand it, can't put a finger on it, but I know it happens,,what is eerie is I think they know it happens too,,,
Mar 24 - 6PM
Amazed
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I believe that they do indeed drain energy long distance.

This might sound strange, but I also think they can wish for evil to happen to you, drain your energy, yes while you are with them and then beyond,,my ex N used to tell me he was "psychic" and telekenetic. So many horrible things have been happening to me, it is unbelievable. I have had a fairly simple life, easy going, happy, carefree before I met the Narc. I had a car accident, that I feel almost was his willing. I am not crazy, but this thought crossed my mind as real, because my first reaction was to delete his ex's number from my phone as soon as it happened. It was almost like him "working through me". I had her number in there, just in case,,us girls gotta stick together! I have had a number of those events, and often wonder why he won't just leave me alone. Do they do this energy draining, yes, I feel they do actually 'dream' about us or conjure us up in their mind, and we pick up on in mentally, physically, psychically, emotionally, spiritualy,, and find it very scary. This might sound strange too, but I pick up his thoughts. I used to and have had premonition dreams.,,, What scares me, is that I think this N person, who I befriended, helped through his own traumatic time, supported him, coached him, listen to him endlessly helping him work through his divorce,,now this person wants me devastated. I am not talking like, oooh,,drama devastated, we are talking for real. I think they can try to do this to people from afar, and actually wonder how we can protect ourselves from them stealing our energy.
Mar 24 - 8PM (Reply to #14)
Barbara (not verified)
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I have to agree

I have to say knowing what I know about the N and Ps' brain abnormalities, hormone abnormalities and ingrained knowledge of trance induction & brain washing - as well my life experience - some of them do have a supernatural hold on us. I know Psycho-Boy did on me for a LONG LONG time... too long. ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
Mar 1 - 10AM
rache
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AMEN!

Everything here is so validating and true about these energy suckers.Years ago(before i met the psychopath)...i had heard of the ~VAMPIRE~/psychic vampire/s.They are cruel,evil,vile things who only care for themselves (No) love in these monsters.The ones they get involved with are VICTIMS-nothing more-to be used and discarded when used up.The OLD psycho/narc i got involved with everytime time i would attempt to be with him i would start to feel so bad physically,emotionally,mentally,that,even IF he didnt do all the other things he did to me would have been enough!BUT,on top of everything-he was a pathological liar,serial cheater,con man,scammer....gave me venereal warts(HPV).My doctor said shes going to do an STD workup on me in June.She knows the dangers from me being with such a nasty thing like him.As women,we must respect ourselves and stay away from these pieces of sh.t! We couldn't help falling,BUT,once we know what they are we can sure as H.ll stop JUMPING........
Mar 1 - 4AM
serene69
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I agree

..it doesn't seem to matter if you have much physical contact with them or not. I was involved with my N for 6 months though only saw him in person about 8 times during that period. Most of our contact was online or text. I look at the person I was when we met compared to the person I am now. My energy levels were great when we met. I was feeling confident, doing loads, doing loads of running races etc. Yet as time went on, I began to feel more and more exhausted to the point I did not have the enthusiasm and energy to do all the things I usually do. I am usually such an active person but I do really feel like he sucked my lifeforce out of me - trying to make me an empty shell too. I know too during that 6 months his behaviour was off, that something was not quite right, but instead of not bothering with him, I continued with the scenario - I really don't know why! But now I am even more determined to get back to that person I once was. I also think it shows too that they don't always get us when we are vulnerable. I think he liked the fact I was successful, good looking etc as it was a game to him to bring me down - the putting down remarks started very early on, but so subtle I never picked them up at the time. But I think he hated the fact I was very intelligent and good at many things - and he couldn't hold back his jealousy even in the early stages.
Mar 1 - 4AM (Reply to #2)
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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the vulnerable

from my personal experience...and from most of the victims of Narcs and Psychopaths i've come to know personally.....mos, as a rule, do NOT prey on the weak and vulnerable...they are looking for strong, energetic victims to bleed dry....they really are monsters......... My blog
Mar 1 - 7AM (Reply to #3)
Barbara (not verified)
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true

the NC thing helps us deprogram but the Energy sucking? Yes... I can attest that until they turn their hate elsewhere... they drain us dry. The really sociopathic ones are the biggest Energy Vampires I know of. ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
Mar 24 - 2PM (Reply to #11)
wallaby (not verified)
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Yowza

I can't believe I missed this thread - think it was on right before I came on this site. This is EXACTLY my experience. And your comment B makes me think, as my latest N is SO adept at getting me even from afar and in my dreams/thoughts that he may be more Psycho/socio than I realized. I know he brainwashes but I was thinking he was "just" N (as if that's not bad enough)- but I think I got out just in time before the psycho/socio activities got underway. The night I met him had the most terrfying nightmare - still rememeber it.
Mar 1 - 10AM (Reply to #10)
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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the psychovamp.......

...no matter how NC i go....or for how long....he's still sucking me dry...it's sickening...and maddening....i'd need to fill a super soaker with holy water and hose him down.. .My blog
Mar 1 - 9AM (Reply to #9)
serene69
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Agree totally on the NC. The

Agree totally on the NC. The longer it goes on the more I feel like I am coming out of my shell and becoming the person I once was. Even my friends are saying the sparkle is back in my eyes. I hope I never ever see or hear from my N again.
Mar 1 - 9AM (Reply to #4)
Nothanx
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Anxiety

I know for me being angry and frustrated takes a huge toll on my energy supply. The whole three years I was with him I went back and forth between confusion/trying to figure things out to extreme anger! I developed extreme anxiety , and was in a constant state of panic for a least one whole year of the relationship. I was completely foggy, preoccupied, and irritable. I am lucky to have held onto my job, as I would spend much of the day reading self help books and scouring the internet for an answer to the weird puzzle my life had become. I am no contact, but my narc is sly and aggressive/persistent and he lays off for a while but will drive by my house and honk and rev his engine so I know he is nearby. This brings on the panic, but it is fading very quickly these days. It is amazing how he can tell when my energy supply is restored, as this is when he makes his presence known. Effin Freak!
Mar 1 - 9AM (Reply to #5)
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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they do seem to somehow know

when we're feeling better...they seem to be able to sense it...and they come back to feed again......... My blog
Mar 29 - 1AM (Reply to #8)
Kelly
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You are funny!

This cracked me up. . "and they come back to feed again . . . " LMAO! I can almost hear Vincent Price's laughter . . narcnarc :)
Mar 24 - 7PM (Reply to #6)
Amazed
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And it comes when you are feeling better, they sense it

Yes, I think they do keep some kind of connection with us in their mind (this is their supply need?) and they call on us, it is like it is their goal to overpower us on some metaphysical level, I want to seriously learn how to stop this from happening.
Mar 29 - 12AM (Reply to #7)
Nothanx
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Over powering on a metaphysical level

I totally believe in the power of positive healing, and I don't think it matters if someone is a narc or not, people just like to spend time with positive people. I think that narcs suck all the positive energy from us, and then when we are sad, confused, and depressed they don't want to be around us. Unfortunately, this is not isolated to people with personality disorders. I kinda think it is human nature to veer away from people when they are down (to a certain degree), but the problem with the narc is that THEY are the reason we are down in the first place. It is extra cruel of them to mess us up then make us feel crazy and then discard. That is why I think they come back when we are feeling better. Positive people are just more attractive, and the narcs greatest fear is that we will be happy without them. They come back when we feel better and are positive and attractive because they want to try to make sure they still possess us. I know for me I can seriously feel him in the air. I start to get anxiety and look over my shoulder constantly. That is how I know that right now he has moved onto another victim. I just don't feel his presence at all.