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family
Hi,
I know you've heard this before but i'm stuck....I know exN is lying to his family about me. He has to cos it's me or him that is the baddie and I don't think he wants to protect me. He cleverly set things up so that I reiterated them like polly parrot to his family at the appropriate time with no clue that he was brainwashing. He has done the poor me. Now his mother is convinced it's me that was so awful thats why he left and his sister hasn't replied to my message. I just really want to tell he the truth of what I know. I try to forget and move on from this but it keeps cropping up. The words of what I could say to his sister to warn her and to free me up............you know my dignity,....this is a character assasination of me, i am not and could never be the person he needs to portray me as in order to justify his leaving me. How do I live with the fact that his family think these things of me and it will always look like I am unreasonable by stopping him from seeing his daughter when he set it up that way. I really want to be unaffected by this. Will it ever get to where I don't care what they think. I feel badly misjudged. Of course, it could be that they don't think any of what i'm thinking and i'm imagining it all.He is an abuser and his family would never see it, nor would anyone actually.
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thanks I need reinforcement
Just shut up
They all do it on purpose,