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Jun 6 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
enpsychopedia r... (not verified)
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Winter escape

I'm going to drive with hubby and dog to Florida in October and stay there for 5 months! Yeay...We're just making plans now. I can't wait! I am not going to think about the Fathead once!
Jun 6 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
Hunter
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And you would never do this

And you would never do this if you were with him! There could be Plans made but no action! Enjoy! Hunter
Jun 6 - 12PM (Reply to #5)
adoette
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Hunter

True that, Hunter.
Jun 6 - 10AM
SoaperGirl
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I'm Free! I woke up this morning feeling Light & Healthy!

I sort of an unexpected turbulant evening..took me a while to get to sleep. I did a lot of praying to be free of the shadow of my narc's presence. This morning, I woke up feeling light and free - like I had been exorcised of a demon tormenting me these past few months. I don't know if this will last. I think it will barring perhaps a temporary down once in a while. For a wnhile I did think about sending a letter to my narc's new OW. Well, I wrote it, and felt better - basically a thank you letter for taking him off my hands, please keep him, and thank you for removing the target off my back. After I wrote it, I realized I didn't want to send it. I've already given her ample warnings, and it has not desuaded her from running away from him. Not a probleem for me. Let people think what they will. The point of all this, is it is possible to get better and heal from all the pain inflicted by this man. There is life after a narc and it is beautiful! Peace!
Jun 6 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
Lobo555
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So glad to hear this!

Everyone has down times, but at least they *are* only temporary. You're doing the right thing by not sending that letter. The best thing you can do for yourself is to be happy. F the narc -- who cares if it's the best revenge on him. :):):) {hugs}