General Narcness/ Bragging Exaggerations

OMG YES the bragging of it all! And this freaking idiot bragged about how "everyone in jail loved me - they gave me their shirts", after he was indicted on charges of fraud and theft! And he also told me "I think everyone is scared of me" - ow WOW isn't that GREAT?! And bragging about: The huge home he used to have before arrest The beautiful ex-girlfriends, ex-wife who was an ivy-league lawyer (had to show me FB photos of the beautiful GF)and then told me he never loved his ex-wife. The very rich widow who was after him....everything was about money - anyone and everything. That he went to culinary school (he did about three months I think) That at a bar a girl just has to give him ONE look and he knows she wants him to take her home. That he's pulling in $200,000 that week??? So many other things. All bullshit.

Tons of bragging, definitely also about the OW. I always felt everything was a competition for mine. Whenever he'd cook he'd point out he had bought the BEST ham at the BEST butcher's in town. We've been NC for 2 months now (I haven't blocked him but usually don't respond to his online messages). The other day I accidentally was logged on when he was and he immediately starts "talking" to me online. Before I could even say anything he had said the following "Two weeks from now there is event XY" (something we both used to attend in the past) "However, I won't be in town and can't attend" "I will be in ... (destination of his vacation, where I had told him I wanted to go with him months ago when we were still talking)" Bragging, bragging, bragging! I mean, first he makes it sound like he's informing me of the event. BUT only to let me know he's going on vacation. And I hadn't replied the whole time!!! He didn't even care if I was in front of the computer or not!!!! (I replied "Oh well..." after that and that was it)

Is that what he would brag about most... A majority of people would be ashamed of...

Constantly talking about how much he has improved at this and that, and he has not, to be honest. How great he looks for his age (eeeeeek). Having high self esteem is fabulous, but the things he things that he does well, he just does not; it is sort of like his values and perceptions of what good and bad is are very criss crossed.

One HUGE whopper of a lie that was among many... Since the piece of work is a wannebee Olympian/BodyBuilder (HE HAS NEVER COMPETED!) who watches HOURS of youtube clips of men ------------(could he be attracted...he spoke once of the beautiful story of "Brokeback Mountain & how unfair it was & he is a Latino guy...most Latinos are intensely machisimo...anyways)------------ who are lifting weights & has HUNDREDS of bodybuilding magazines in the basement of the house his parents let him stay at...(GOSH WHY DIDN'T I SEE THAT RED FLAG!??! Why is this miner who makes 6G a month living in his parents BASEMENT?? RED FLAG!!! Maybe because his money goes on...plane tickets (the ones he paid for of mine...his steriods...Mercedes & other BS like tanning and too young wannabe G clothes...oh gosh...he's 32...) Anyways...so he tells me he was in Golds Gym in either Las Vegas or Venice Beach (all bodybuilder deal...called Mecca or something...) anyways so he is lifting (I've seen guys bench more but whatever I was in "love" and by the way our calves are about the same size...mine are strong but no way Arnold sized) so he tells me he was lifting and the Pro's IFBB dudes come in Cutler and a bunch of other guys come in and are give him the "up and coming" new guy stare and how they walked around him and were checking him out to see how he would measure up...and he knew they were all looking at him UGH VOMIT! I felt a little creeped out by his story, but I figured hey whatever...everybody has a dream...but it was no doubt nausating... oh yeah and that he wanted to know if I ever thought of getting implants and what I thought of working full time while he "pursued his dream" the way the other bodybuilding wives "stood by their men" Come to think of it... This guys a BASTARD! :) thanks for the opportunity to vent :)

whats the guy name richard hatch? he was on celebrity apprentice and i think he is beyond a narc lol he is on some other level i don't know . he looks scary and crazy like if i was in a dark alley and he was there it would be curtains foe me. yikes!!! lol and thanks for mentioning about the first stages of breakups. i wish i knew this information back in jan. i would've handled things alot different and kept my cool. thanks again momoya!

Seeing Richard Hatch on "Celebrity Apprentice" was an eye-opener... considering he was in trouble with the law AGAIN after he left. Major Narc. He was the first winner of "Survivor",mainly famous for spending most of his time naked. The ex-Psych prof was a MAJOR braggart. He bragged about being a philosopher... he has NOTHING to show for it. He bragged about how he'd write a book about Augustine&Wittgenstein... it never materialized, not that I can't use the non-existent book as ammo/object of ridicule ;) He expected his colleagues to treat him as brilliant... no wonder he pals around with his father. He's at the same developmental stage as my year-old nephew. I'm glad I didn't move in with him&have to deal with his possessions. I would've put them on eBay. I would've used them for ME ME ME ME. He would've been lucky to be wearing a shirt... because he got pretty fat. Nothing more disgusting than a paunchy shirtless guy.