Help me with no contact

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#1 Aug 7 - 2AM
Striped
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Help me with no contact

I know I need to cut it off. I've tried limited contact, I've tried being nice & I get shat on every time.

To summarise. Our sons are very good friends, so there's lots of playdates. But I don't even think that's possible now.

Today I had his son, I saw him heading up our driveway & I quickly dashed into my bedroom. He grabbed his son & left. All good. As soon as he gets home he emails me to say "you ran away when I arrived" (I didn't think he'd seen me).

Do I reply? Do I ignore? Do I tell him I want to do NC or just do it?

I have tried telling him how he hurts me, I've tried asking WTF is going on, both ways he gets angry and dumps me. The only way forward is NC. But I don't know if I announce it or just ignore him?

Aug 7 - 9PM
fefe65
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I honest don't know how you

Aug 7 - 6PM
thebigpayback
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you need to get real with

Aug 7 - 2PM
Striped
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I hope it won't be so hard

Aug 7 - 12PM
Dallas
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Hi Striped

Aug 7 - 9AM
boomer14
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no way....

Aug 7 - 8AM
Trixy
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Striped you puzzle me

Aug 7 - 8AM (Reply to #10)
Striped
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" I would find it hard to

Aug 7 - 9AM (Reply to #11)
Trixy
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Any time Striped

Aug 7 - 8AM
Hunter
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Huh???Your son is allowed to

Aug 7 - 7AM
TruthbeginsToday
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They FEED off of ANY

Aug 7 - 8AM (Reply to #6)
Striped
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Thanks Truth :) It's true,

Aug 7 - 8AM (Reply to #7)
lessonlearned
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striped

Aug 7 - 7AM
ItsFinallytime
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Ignore the comment, do not

Aug 7 - 8AM (Reply to #3)
Striped
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Thanks. I thought with the

Aug 7 - 8AM (Reply to #4)
ItsFinallytime
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I'm glad you can now see that

Aug 7 - 6AM
zeldasar
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The hardest best thing