Help/SAD

Anything new with narc? 8-)

Do they ever go way, ?Ah..no. (i know mine will never come back) Do friends get it? Ah…no, (i LOL-ed at this. ONE MILLION agree!!!!!!!!) The extend of them wanting to be recognised and seen is totally hilarous and pathetic, but we all know we feel sorry for such disorder they has. Nothing can be done. Sad. Amen.

You should change your name to... Lady And The Tramp. lolololol's

Breaking up before the internet was so much cleaner, nicer and easier!

I agree with so many of our fine friends here that we know you know what has happened to cause your sadness here... I also know you will DELETE, DELETE, DELETE. I hope you are feeling better today... Stay strong!

What happened?? Where is my rock!? You can't fall prey to the FB shenanigans! You are WAY stronger than that! Sending positive sunshiney vibes your way. Ignore the bastard! I hope you are feeling better today...

I know how you feel. I don't know if it's because i'm running a fever right now but i started to cry and i haven't been able to stop. What is it with this bullshit that won't let me just be. This pain they cause us is so ingrained in our souls that it is so difficult to just wipe it away. Hugs!

Do they ever go way, ?Ah..no. AH...yes...there is a physical distance between you no? His "presence" was a result of a communication but the reality is you are separated by miles...THAT's the reality so yes, they go away and even if a foot in front of you in the mind if they are invisible do they exist? Sort of like if a tree falls in the forest and no one is there to hear it does it make a sound... Do friends get it? The ones here do...**HUGS** So here is the Ideal update to a typical day in Narcville. The good news is I don't give a shit. Me thinks you do or you wouldn't be posting...but it's okay...we go through this... The bad news more people are about to be used and abused. Yes, bad for them but you don't have to be one of them... My friend who is linked on FB with his business "Dog Training Site" Notifies me After 5 months of no activity he starts posting all these photos ,of course, of himself, and his dog. Does this friend know that you don't want to know anything about the K-9 guru? Ok so I peeked! Honestly I felt nothing! Another day of being Narc Educated. -yea, I get you on that...I posted about how I feel more empowered the more I see what a crumb he is and how bad he looks...BUT...we're not supposed to pick our scabs... Here is what I found, I'm telling you this is to prove how sick these disturbed individuals are, they truly are a mirror image and users. A Dog Trainer "loser"( I suppose he at least has a job.) This is a high profile job??? Hardly, the Cesar Millan image he thinks he is. Not the top "Dog". WOOF! The first posted photo, three female dogs bowing to his male dog. In the background are three photos of his dog. The Title Blanc sur Blanc. WTF??... Don't know but further evidence of narcspeak? A language only they can understand? He's french?...WTH? I dunno The next one of Him and a Dog. "A man and his dog" how fitting...female dog? Just askin... The next 2 are two people he is introducing as new employees. One was kicked out of her girlfriends house, (they broke up) ,The girlfriend supported her. She will be dog walking for him. AND...? The other is a guy he always paid for because he can never keep a job. He will be another trainer. Wow, sounds like he has his business acumen intact...you've lost sooooo much Ideal...*snicker* WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO YOURSELF?? See where I'm going with this? Yes...but you need to see how PATHETIC HE IS...and I don't think you're seeing that or feeling it in your soul yet...you're still hurting which is normal... The first photo of his dog being idolized is a mirror image of himself *or maybe his new lover...you never know with these types...anything is possible... Next ,He found two losers bigger than himself to use to better his business. Yes, they do say when a loser want's to feel better about themselves, they surround themselves with bigger losers....BUT the losers will still be victims, not their falult they don't know better... Lastly, all was quiet on the home front for 5 months. Is he Looking for Supply? AHHH, Yes. Any normal business person would constantly be working his site, He has not updated any of this since Sept. BUT how does this IMPACT YOU??? Why the focus on him? Not a product, not an add ,nothing. Most of his friends on FB are mine 40% to be exact. A lot of good that does since they don't live in NYC. You actually did the math?...and of that 40% how many are really loyal? Maybe you need to trim the percentage... A True Over achiever. NOT! A true F&%ked Up NARC. I'd love your thoughts. Idealk I posted this from the other day and now its worse and yes I know Delete delete,delete, Now on his site the OW posted a photo from 1988 He wins he got to me, What a son of a bitch. Please tell me that Im just overreacting and this isn't about me? IdealK...what's going on? You know the truth about this guy...you can see it in the pic...just like I see my Narc...loser as pathetic...BUT when I look, I get tickled now I don't hurt...IF you are still getting down in the dumps...you can't handle peeking. Peeking on under those conditions...and I know this because I've been there...you are seeking some kind of validation...something to prove to yourself and the picture you paint I can see it just by what you're saying but yet...this is having a negative impact on you so obviously you should not be peeking because you can't handle it...and NC is the rule but let's get off that cause you know, we all have weak moments and I'm not going to sit here and preach that which I haven't mastered even though for me...like I said, I get a freaking charge out of it... WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR WHEN YOU PEEK? kick it back....

What did I tell you!!! I knew this was gonna happen. Facebook is evil sometimes. Block him. Dont let this send you down a slippery slope. Block him right now. I will check with you in the morning my friend.

You've got to quit peeking!!! All it does is cause you pain and he IS NOT worth it. It would give him so much pleasure to know you were peeking!! If he is doing it for supply then you HAVE NO SUPPLY FOR HIM!!! Stop looking at it because all that does is make you focus on HIM more and what HE is doing and F's with your mind. You know better!! Love you! Sara