He's back

Hi Wantpeace and welcome to the site. Glad to see you here. The answer to your question is quite easy.......they need to stay in your head, they NEED to keep you as supply. They will move on to others, but us being their "main" source of supply, one they can count on while pouraging through others, they had to stay near, in our heads, our thoughts. Once they no longer are, they have to establish a new main supply. That takes waaaay too much effort, so they maintain it with us. Another interesting fact: they view the main supplier as a queen, someone to be placed on a pedestal (only in their heads, they will never admit that) and the other suppliers are considered dirty whores to them. They look at them with disgust..... No matter how you slice it, they are NOT healthy people and need to be kept at arms length at all times! Good luck with your journey! It will seem like a long one, at times you will want to give up, give in......but don't! NOTHING will ever change! It will never be what it was in the beginning! NEVER! Here is a wonderful quote, I keep attached to both computers as a reminder.... "I will always cherish the initial misconceptions I had about you" That keeps me focused at all times! Reach out to me and the others any time! Smiles

Officially 16 days. The date that I was done and wanted it over was in April........but since I worked on "exposure" during the month of May, I had to have contact with him. I WOULD NOT reccomend anyone attempting to do this though. It was a lot of effort on my part, felt good for the moment, but in the end, the result is still the same, it changed nothing and I knew it wouldn't nor did I want it to. BUT, with that said, looking back, I could have really done more harm then good. I put myself in harms way, went up against a mentally ill man who goodness knows, could have done just about anything if enraged enough. PLEASE, PLEASE..........I urge you DO NOT ATTEMPT TO EXPOSE OR UNMASK THEM!!!! JUST WALK AWAY AND CONTINUE NC!!!

Yes. I really thought I took the right measures to ensure I wouldn't hear from him. Boy, they are tricky little devils. I changed my email, and my home phone number and blocked his number from my cell.......he opened up a "textfree" account on pinger.com and sent me a text to my cell phone with a different phone number. At first, I didn't realize it was him. He was asking me if we were "meeting" tonight, and when I wrote back "who is this" he wouldn't reply........than later in the day he wrote "you forgot......feel bad". Yesterday was his birthday. I am sure that he emailed me, had the email returned to him, texted me, had that returned and then opened up the pinger account. Oh, and he is off of Match.com now........cut me a break. I see right through this ploy. No worries though, I DID NOT correspond after that........