hi, new member
hi, new member
I often question reality and if maybe it is me who is the one who is a narc. When I read information about narcissism I can see all of those traits in my current relationship. But I can also see them in myself. When I try to stand up to him he says it is me who is controlling and selfish. And recently I feel that I have gained back some control of my life. He says that I have to have everything my way and that it hurts him that I insist on having such high standards that no one can meet. He looks at my boundaries as way of keeping him at bay and controlling the relationship. I want to be free of this confusion and attraction to people who are manipulative. If I were a narc would I be capable of being aware of it? I think I know the truth but I get confused when he starts flipping it around. Is it me?
Myth
GIS projection. YOU are not
Ah, this is how Narc's
I suffered from the same
gemofagirl..so thankful for this site.
Welcome Laloba
Gem is spot on.. Get out of