hi, new member

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#1 Dec 3 - 1AM
Laloba
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hi, new member

I often question reality and if maybe it is me who is the one who is a narc. When I read information about narcissism I can see all of those traits in my current relationship. But I can also see them in myself. When I try to stand up to him he says it is me who is controlling and selfish. And recently I feel that I have gained back some control of my life. He says that I have to have everything my way and that it hurts him that I insist on having such high standards that no one can meet. He looks at my boundaries as way of keeping him at bay and controlling the relationship. I want to be free of this confusion and attraction to people who are manipulative. If I were a narc would I be capable of being aware of it? I think I know the truth but I get confused when he starts flipping it around. Is it me?

Dec 3 - 9AM
Goldie
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Myth

Dec 3 - 9AM
thebigpayback
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GIS projection. YOU are not

Dec 3 - 7AM
gemofagirl
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Ah, this is how Narc's

Dec 3 - 11AM (Reply to #5)
pattylyn
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I suffered from the same

Dec 3 - 9AM (Reply to #3)
Laloba
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gemofagirl..so thankful for this site.

Dec 3 - 10AM (Reply to #4)
Willow
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Welcome Laloba

Dec 3 - 7AM (Reply to #2)
Hunter
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Gem is spot on.. Get out of