how can i trust anything this man says
how can i trust anything this man says
for several weeks now, my hN continues to tell my and our daughter that hes looking for his own place and will be out of whores apt before thanksgiving. he keeps saying he will figure something out, rent a room, or find someone to crash with. my problem is i dont believe him and its giving me such anxiety, i have told myself, over and over again, if this is a lie, im done, id rather be homeless, i will go completely nc if he is still there on thanksgiving, i dont care if he stops paying the bills, i dont care if i ever see him again, this is the one lie, i will not accept. simply because he has carried it on daily for several weeks, telling me, once i have my own place, i can have our daughter over a couple nights a week, even if im renting a room, she can stay with me, i will be able to work on the house when i want without answering to her, he keeps saying i dont want to answer to her anymore, i want my freedom, but girls, we all know, he is a pathological liar, and believes in his sick mind, nothing he does will ever cause me to go nc. hes so wrong, im done forever if hes with her on thanksgiving. i will play the game, if he leaves, i will let him pay for everything, fix everything, but if he stays, i will send her a copy of all the texts and the phone bill and let her know, hes a monster, and is using her, i will let her know, i am through listening to him tell me he doesnt love her, and wants out. this morning he text me and said, im sooooooo out of here.........so lets see.......can a pathological liar believe his own lies, yes he can, but lets see if for the first time in his life, he is telling the truth. two and half weeks and we will all know.......and trust this, he is so done, and so gone from my life forever if he is lying about this, our daughter is so excited all she wants is him out of there so she can have a real relationship with him, as the whore, freaked again last night because he spent a couple hours with our daughter, she kept calling him, and he had to go to his car to call her back, he told me they fought all nite because of it, lol guess she didnt know he was here, eating dinner watching tv and hanging with his daughter, she probably bought his bullshit that they were at the mall. or maybe she knew he was here, either way, the whore doesnt even want him with his daughter, how sick..........so can i believe anything? can a liar be telling the truth for once?
thanks for all the responses
Jaycee
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Hi Jaycee
set up .....
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