How did you get the Narc to back off?

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#1 Sep 7 - 6AM
Liberated2Aspire
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How did you get the Narc to back off?

Ladies have there ever been a moment that your N was projecting and you responded in such a way that it left him speechless? Made him think to the point he came back with the same projection just with a better strategy (because they want to win). To only make your realize you got the best of him because he returned. I understand we ARE working towards NC however, before we knew about Narcissism or broke NC I know there had to be words exchanged that left them tongue-tied or silence. After sharing this we may find ourselves dealing with the same type of projections with different ways of responding and dealing with them. I believe hearing some comebacks will put a smile on our faces and make us wiser. PLEASE SHARE!

Sep 9 - 10AM
neverlookback
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yes, a few times

Sep 9 - 8AM
mystwoman
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The way I got xnh to back off

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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.

Sep 9 - 7AM
not_his_property
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Liberated2Aspire

Sep 9 - 6AM
not_his_property
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First post.....

Sep 9 - 7AM (Reply to #37)
Liberated2Aspire
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Not His Properly...

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Sep 8 - 10AM
Very happy girl
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Believe it or not

Sep 8 - 12PM (Reply to #35)
laxl
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No clever comeback will work - only NC works

Sep 8 - 10AM (Reply to #31)
Used
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silence and NC. That is a

Sep 8 - 11AM (Reply to #34)
imok123
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Silence

Sep 8 - 10AM (Reply to #32)
Very happy girl
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Used

Sep 8 - 10AM (Reply to #33)
Used
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veryhappygirl

Sep 8 - 9AM
hotncold
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Well...

Sep 8 - 9AM (Reply to #25)
Sealcard1113 (not verified)
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Of course they do....

Sep 8 - 10AM (Reply to #26)
Emma
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I don't think that's true. I

Sep 8 - 10AM (Reply to #27)
hotncold
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it's probably 50/50

Sep 8 - 10AM (Reply to #28)
Emma
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He tried a few pathetic

Sep 8 - 2PM (Reply to #29)
Radiolady
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Emma

Sep 8 - 9AM
Emma
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I ripped off his mask and

Sep 8 - 1PM
IncognitoBurrito
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You

Sep 7 - 9AM
knighty2035
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Did you REALLY???

Sep 7 - 8AM
GracefullyFree
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Great comebacks

Sep 7 - 8AM
Liberated2Aspire
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I understand no one knows me in person...

Liberated2Aspire

Sep 7 - 7AM
Liberated2Aspire
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BLESS YOU GOLDIE!!!!! YOU'RE A SAINT!!!!!

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Sep 7 - 7AM
Deidre99
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only comeback is to leave and

Sep 7 - 7AM (Reply to #17)
Liberated2Aspire
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Thank You Deidre99

Liberated2Aspire

Sep 7 - 7AM
Liberated2Aspire
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Thanks Hunter, Truly it is not my intentions to HARM any members

Liberated2Aspire

Sep 7 - 7AM (Reply to #15)
Goldie
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We offer Support Groups and one on one's

Sep 7 - 7AM (Reply to #8)
spinning
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Lib, we do not have

spinning

Sep 7 - 8AM (Reply to #9)
Liberated2Aspire
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Yes, spinning that's how I got to the point of pain that I'm in

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Sep 7 - 8AM (Reply to #13)
spinning
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Lib, dearheart,

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