This topic comes up alot on this forum. And it's hard to deal with intially. Really gut wrenching and heartbreaking-especially if you were dicarded for this 'new' woman.
Their happiness is superficial and only lasts for a short time. use the relationship that you had with him as a measuring stick or examle. He will treat her no better or possibly worst. Some narcs have managed keep thier mask on for longer periods of time. But they can't do it forever.
It will fall off oneday. But for you my dear-that is neither you concern or worry. You concerntrate on your well being and recovery. As hard as it is for you to do right now-you will recover and be happy again.
Think of it as a 'blessing' in disguise or the universes way of telling you he was'nt the one.
You keep your thoughts realistic. Easier said than done, but when your head goes off into "their so happy" read the article Barbara posts and remember we were all the "next" woman. We know how it goes. She'll be one of us someday asking the same question, and you will have healed loads by that time.
i can see the pattern in the psychonarc...he gets worse and worse and worse..i believe when he gets his talons on his next female victim that he will start to beat her almost immediately..and kill her if he can...
he's been without a female victim for awhile..thanks to me having access to his incoming emails :)
but i think if he manages to find another one, he will kill her...
YES!They do.The old psychopath is definitely on a very fast paced down hill slide=rages on a dime,furious----the second week of marriage threw shish kabob skewers across room because i didn't load them up to suit H.I.M-then,later apologized as he saw on tv i did it right.FREAKS!
print it out... read at least 4x per day until you get it
http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2009/04/11/other-woman-now-hes-happy-her
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The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein
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Once you get it, it really does stick. The women before us, after us, will all get treated the same...if not now, eventually.
There was nothing wrong with YOU, it is HIM.
And my dirty minded old psychopath cheated with his limp d..k during first month and a half of marriage!-if not-before,just caught him then......a liar cheat,abusive sick a-hole.Who would want the freak?????????One foot in the grave and two on a banana peel sliding fast........he won't even live long enough for anyone to draw his social security-loser.
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You keep your thoughts
Ending the dance
the next one will be treated worse
Worse
print it out... read at least 4x per day until you get it
This is a very common thought
Yeah