How Do You Prepare For The Eventual Chance Meeting?
How Do You Prepare For The Eventual Chance Meeting?
I'm pleased to report that I'm doing really well. :-) Especially because it kind of snuck up on me that I was doing really well. I'm indifferent toward him now. All the love I had for him is gone. I don't think about him nearly as much. I have my bad spells, but they're the exception rather than the rule these days, finally.
I had a moment tonight when I came across an event I almost attended this weekend but didn't - luckily, as it turned out. In perusing the information on FB awhile ago, I saw that the floozy my ex took up with after me had apparently attended it. He and I still share many mutual friends, and the floozy is friends with a lot of them as well. I never liked her even way back when, and I definitely don't like her now. I'm so glad I decided not to go - I would've been completely unprepared to run into her, even if she was there alone.
Sooner or later, all the principles in this are going to cross paths. It's been in the back of my mind all along, but with summer coming, it seems like it's going to happen before I even know how I'll deal with it. Seeing him? Seeing her, even though I suspect they're done? I have absolutely no idea what I'd do. I don't want to see him. I sure as hell don't want to see her. I don't want to see anyone who might make any sort of reference to him whatsoever, because I'd be so uncomfortable they'd certainly be tipped off that there had been something between us and it didn't end mutually. At the same time, conscious avoidance of those people and situations only goes so far - I can't predict everything. Had I gone to this weekend's event, I'd had no idea the floozy was planning to be there, too.
How do I prepare for the day it happens?
Ive seen him many times and
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
No 'hi' needed
narcissizednomore
Professional Distance!
firstly, I try for that not to happen
That's not cowardice, that's
Being like Conan...
Hmmm...