Hurting

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#1 Apr 19 - 9AM
Monarch
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Hurting

Why is it I get the silent treatment for telling him I see he has a new girlfriend (possibly engaged) and I'm happy for him. Why won't he admit it? Why does he want to know who told me and when I tell him I saw it on FB, he is angry? I said I was happy for him. I said it was a good thing and how it should be. I broke NC after four months and now I'm reeling. I don't understand this contempt he has for me. I don't understand. I want to move on and be happy with my life but I can't stand that he's written me off. I truly want to say goodbye on good terms. But this angers him? I asked for closure and I wanted to hear it from him that he has found someone else. He won't. He is making me feel like I am crazy. I think I am.

Apr 19 - 11AM
Sparrow
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Closure is not a possibility

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #53)
Deidre99
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i love what you say here,

Apr 19 - 11AM (Reply to #45)
Monarch
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OMG! Sparrow! You are right!

Apr 19 - 11AM (Reply to #46)
Monarch
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Also

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #50)
Deidre99
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trust me when I say this...he

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #51)
Monarch
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Deidre, thanks again.

Apr 19 - 1PM (Reply to #52)
Janie53
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Monarch

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #49)
Sparrow
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Monarch

Apr 19 - 11AM (Reply to #47)
Monarch
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Fear

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #48)
Sparrow
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He will NOT seek revenge. No

Apr 19 - 11AM
Snowflake
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Monarch

Apr 19 - 11AM (Reply to #43)
Monarch
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Snowflake

Apr 19 - 9AM
spinning
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Dearest Monarch...

spinning

Apr 19 - 10AM (Reply to #41)
Monarch
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My dearest Spinning, You help

Apr 19 - 9AM
Deidre99
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Just to add to what lily

Apr 19 - 9AM
Monarch
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It hurts really badly but

Apr 19 - 9AM (Reply to #37)
Layla
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Yes it DOES hurt.

Apr 19 - 11AM (Reply to #38)
Monarch
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Yah, I was doing it to teach

Apr 19 - 9AM
Janie53
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Monarch

Apr 19 - 9AM (Reply to #27)
Monarch
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I think I've read every book

Apr 19 - 10AM (Reply to #35)
Janie53
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Monarch

Apr 19 - 9AM (Reply to #28)
Deidre99
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Looking at his facebook too,

Apr 19 - 10AM (Reply to #29)
Monarch
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Thank you so much, Deidre.

Apr 19 - 10AM (Reply to #33)
Deidre99
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((Monarch)) I feel your pain

Apr 19 - 11AM (Reply to #34)
Monarch
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Deidre

Apr 19 - 10AM (Reply to #30)
TNR1
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Hey Monarch....my situation

Apr 19 - 11AM (Reply to #31)
Monarch
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It seems like even though I

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #32)
TNR1
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I'm ashamed of myself for the

Apr 19 - 9AM
lilygirl
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nc

Apr 19 - 9AM (Reply to #24)
Monarch
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There's definitely truth in