I ACCEPTED HIS CONDITIONS, JUST SO HE WOULD REMAIN IN MY LIFE:(
I ACCEPTED HIS CONDITIONS, JUST SO HE WOULD REMAIN IN MY LIFE:(
I came to realize what a horriblr monster he really is and how hurtfull he towards me ! Yet the memory of how things used to be and my constant maybe he can change, won't let me move on. I have tried NC multiple times to no avail. I have not gone more then a week NC, I just can't find the will to let go.
He came into my life when I needed him the most. I was in the beging of a divorce to a physical and emotional abuser and landed in the psych ward with sever depression. My eXNarc was there everyday interacting with my therapy and making my life seem like I was worth a million bucks. He remained by my side through the divorce process making me feel like I had found the man of my dreams. I have 3 children that he was so eager to interact with and be part of their lives.
It wasn't long that he moved in to our home without warning just didn't leave one day. From that point on he took and took never gave a thing back wouldn't even pick up his underwear from the bathroom floor. I began to feel like I was on a full time job and longed for bed time for rest. I was his slave and we had to walk on egg shells for him. We didn't know what mood he would wake up in or how our day would carry. My children starting to hate being home and after 3 unreal months, he became physical and I finally got the courage to ask him to leave.
But he wasn't done with me the pain after the brake up has been so unreal. He knows how much I love him and uses it against me to pick me up and drop me when he pleases. I hate being alone I fear loneliness and he knows that. I know he's a psycho yet I can't find it in me to walk away.
This last Wednesday after no contact for merely a week he called and I gave in we met for dinner and enjoyed it so much cause at the end of the day he makes me soooo happy with just his company. He later told me " You will always belong to me, if you date it's because I allow it but the minute I call you back I expect you to drop what your doing and come back." how sick of me I agreeded. As crazy as it sounds I was ok with that it felt good to belong to the man I so dearly loved. BUT today I don't feel the same I feel like a prisoner but I don't even know where to start to run away ;(
You are worth more!
Thank You..
Conditions
Pumpkin
YOU DO have it in you
Ouch!
Welcome.. The question I'll
I want to be set free but
You don't or you won't?