i broke NC. :( now what?
i broke NC. :( now what?
I was stupid. I have no idea what possessed me. I didn't even think. I sent him an email in response to that email I posted on the forum yesterday. I wrote:
Hey, I don't think it's a good idea that we communicate. I would appreciate it if you stopped contacting me. I am glad to hear that you have been enjoying yourself since the last time we spoke.
Of course, I kind of don't want him to stop contacting me. But the worst part of this is that I was 12 days of NC. And now I have to start at Day 1 again. On top of that, and I knew this was going to happen, I am waiting obsessively to see what he will say to this email. And so the cycle begins...
I feel sick in my stomach. I wish I could recall the email.
He could:
1. comply and not respond like I asked. This would hurt.
2. he could respond with nasty words. This would hurt.
3. he could respond kindly. And I would still be hurt because I would be in a bind as to whether to continue responding.
I sent it and just panicked and didn't know where to turn, except to post it here as a way to vent and release some of my anxiety.
dazed....
stay~strong
update: this is what he wrote more recently
I'm not one to tiptoe
Don't Fall for It
Maybe you could try this
You can't
victimnomore
Dazed don't do it!!!. You
STAY STRONG!! XX
Hi i broke NC after 55 days,
STAY STRONG!! XX
dazed and seeking peace and strength
Don't Communicate
Anyway you are aware of the
update: his response. this is all a lie? really?
I, I, I, me, me, me
We can all tell you that no
Dust yourself off
I have to step out
It's true...I'm currently
That's not to say that I
I've broken NC more times
This is a great list Sara!
Dazed
Don't beat yourself up. The
So What
FYI, this is the email he