I need support, BIG TIME!
I need support, BIG TIME!
I need all the wisdom and validation from this site I can get. The mornings are so bad for me. I wake with this pit in my stomach. I have been in NC mode for a few days. My N, which I am separated from, is out of town for the weekend at his mommy house at the beach. I needed to get into his house to get the remainder of my STUFF and to take pictures of furniture I plan to sell. I brought my sister and a friend because its so painful to be in a place where I lived for 6 years. I also didnt want to be alone because I know I would snoop and find things to hurt me more. By the way, I was NEVER a snoop! I was NEVER jealous! Sure I was needy when I met him but now Im pathetic, insecure and dont know who I hate more: me, for being this stupid or HIM because I know he took a huge chunk of my heart and life. That said, he is a personal trainer and I know he's been training his 'next victim' who ofcourse is younger, more fit, blah, blah, blah. I know he will do the same things and be the same person with her that he was with me. I get that. We all know the highs and lows which is why we stayed so long-not to mention the brain manipulation. But there are times, especially on a holiday weekend, when I sit alone ad wish I was with him; not the person he REALLY is that I've come to know and learn about but the person I first fell in love with. I am very smart and intelligent and I know now it was all a facade but the hurt is just so bad. I am so broken hearted for what never was! While in his house, he made it a point to leave a picture of himself for her on MY credenza which is in the front entrance. It was one of those customizable photo booth stream of photos and at the bottom he had written 'Happy Birthday Joanne'! It just kicked me in the butt! He just wrote me friday that he missed me very very much and I didnt respond because Im working hard to have NC. I am 50 for Gods sake and smart enough to make my brain wrap around what a monster he is, but today my brain wont go there. It just goes to my sadness and feeling so all alone. I know I will heal but these little set backs beat me up on so many levels. I try to be strong but its so hard to sleep and when I do, I dread waking to this emptiness. ANy help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
I am really starting to hate
Journey on...
Hi Journey
Well done on the NC keep it
Hi Scoop!
All I can say is me too. We
Been there!!!
Gemelli, I am so sorry for
All-one instead of alone is
GEMELLI
Hello Used!
I know exactly how you feel
Hi Winter!
im sorry youre in so much pain
Hi Indenial!