The INHUMANESS of these MEN

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#1 Aug 3 - 4PM

onwithmylife

The INHUMANESS of these MEN

Hi everyone, i am a long time out over 2 plus years and it still haunts me about the inhumaness of the man I gave 15 years of my life too. Don't ask me why but i recently sent a card to him, a nice, cheerful one, put my return address on it, and never heard a freaking thing back, not a thank you, not a hope you are doing well ,not a I a moving on, all the best, NOTHING. I just feel so darn sad and hurt after all this time to realize I gave so much of my life to a man who could easily take my money and leave me by the side of the road, for all he gives a damn and he could not care less. If I could meet a decent guy he would have been history a long time ago, but have met no one, nada. There has to be justice somewhere and I can only hope his time will come and that he gets what he deserves, even though i know now he is living a life of a hermit, in lonely desperation, in his own world of fantasy.As Thomas Sheridan says in his blogs, these men are NOT human and that is a certainty I know now.

#2 Aug 3 - 7PM

SoaperGirl

I found a comment my daughter had posted on my blog

It was so sweet, I wanted to share it with you. Maybe it will help a little. "You are strong and never have or never will need a man in your life when you are lonely. Just think you have a family who always will love you." Sweet Jessie.

#3 Aug 3 - 7PM (Reply to #10)

onwithmylife

soaper girl

what lovely children you raised, great job!I have very little family for validation, unfortunately my son is closer to my ex-husband and he and my sister are all that is left for me.

#4 Aug 3 - 6PM

Sparrow

You don't need a man to move

You don't need a man to move on from that loser! A new man will come in to your life in due time......no worries there! My N #2 spoke 4 languages, I speak only one. At Christmas, I bought a few French Christmas cards, took them home, translated them and chose the most appropriate one for him. Wrote a nice little note translated in French and mailed it to him. (we were still on very good terms at the time) He never mentioned a word to me about it. One day, between Christmas and New Years, I asked him if he ever received it (just in case the Post Office lost it, but I knew better) He said "oh yeh, Thanks" That's it.....thats all he had to say? OMG!!!! What an ignorant s.o.b. he was! I myself am so glad the both of them are out of my life! I actually had to meet with N#1 tonight. I will post that in a minute.......let me just tell you, I am loving life WITHOUT them! Didn't think it was possible, but it is! Don't waste another second on that loser! Be glad that you are rid of him and you have the rest of your life to be narc free! Imagine that! Narc free!!!!!

#5 Aug 3 - 5PM

Hunter

Sounds to me like you wasted

Sounds to me like you wasted a stamp and 4 bucks for a card! I was talking to Neverlookback a while ago, I wanted to make contact, all she said was "why bother" simple words but hit home. Why bother? You would be better off and getting more satisfaction sending a card to your dog! Oxox Hunter

#6 Aug 3 - 5PM (Reply to #6)

onwithmylife

hunter, you

funny woman, you always tell it like it is ,love you, luckily I only wasted a dollar on the card, plus postage. Hope neverlookback is doing well, miss her.......

#7 Aug 3 - 5PM (Reply to #7)

Hunter

Neverlookback

She's doing awesome and moving forward!!! She still checks in!! PM her shed love to hear from you! Hunter

#8 Aug 3 - 5PM

fooled no longer

So you are a nice person and

So you are a nice person and did a normal thing you tried to get closure in a relationship and send a nice card., Thank God he never answered, and took you on another ride to hell. Its best to consider them dead. its terrible I know it haunts you you can never work out how someone can be so inhuman. I as just thinking yesterday that on new years eve when i discovered what he had been doing and exposed him, that was all I ever did, was catch him out and that was enough for him to forget the 8 years of wonderful things I did for him, so that he could make my life a living hell. It got so bad and God brought out all his evil into the light. He is so paranoid that I saw through every lie. I think hes constantly looking over his shoulder. In the end, He couldnt even think about farting, and I knew it. I saw him as he is, an empty shouting shell!

#9 Aug 3 - 5PM (Reply to #4)

onwithmylife

fooledno longer

thank you for the reality check, i know you are right, i should be happy he never replied to my card, but what a horror of a man?, I wrote him over 2 years ago asking for a more equal relationship with him, where both of our needs and wants got met, I did not even call him a narcissist, did not know enough at that time, yet that was it, THE END FINISHED with me, he must have sensed I was catching onto him, which i was, but still did not know what was wrong with the man, I was just tired of it always being about his wants and needs and mine meant nothing to the man....also he held onto the comment when he asked me what I had been doing, after we broke up for some months, and I told him that i met a guy for coffee on a free dating website, after we got back together,so he determined I was unfaithful, whatever it took, to justify his dumping of me.The only times I resorted to meeting other men was wheenver he dumped me, but that doesn't count!

#10 Aug 3 - 4PM

nancyh

Onwithmylife - you are being

Onwithmylife - you are being too generous by calling him a "man" - you are correct, they are inhuman - they are monsters. Hugs to you. nan

Nan

#11 Aug 3 - 4PM (Reply to #2)

onwithmylife

Nancyh

You are so right, but I guess because we ARE human it is so difficult to fathom.I am having a bad day i guess............

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