It makes him look good.
It makes him look good.
I live only a few blocks from the N and am 3+yrs out after spending 5yrs in a crazy mixed up haze w/ this man. I am doing very well. I still take extra care to live my life outside his normal patterns to minimize the chances of seeing him. I came here to read today for the first time in a long time.
I needed to be here because recently, I have seen the N walking the dog of a nbor who is dying of cancer. I have also seen him at her house several times in the past couple of weeks. It appears as though he is helping her out - mowing the lawn, walking the dog, and who knows what else. She's been ill for several years and not doing well at all. I would expect she is in the final stages. She is probably 60ish. N is 51.
It all looks so good from the outside. What a nice thing for a person to do, right? And then my mind goes down the path of "What if I was wrong? What if he really is a decent person and it was all in my head? What if? What if????!!!"
I KNOW the answer is that it makes him look good. And that it makes him important. And that she is his secondary supply. And he knows I'm only a block from there. And he knows I've seen how "good" he is being. And I know that he doesn't care or think twice about me. And I know if I tried to explain it to anyone, they would think I was crazy!
And that's why I had to come here and post. Because surely taking care of a woman dying of cancer is a selfless act? Right? Yeah, right!
Neighbor
Yeah RIGHT! lol
Well, of course..,
More on neighbors...
Luv2bme
Groundwork**
Luv2bme
really
Laci
really
Critical of the neighbors..
really, i know exactly how you feel
sadderbutwiser
really, you make a good point
THEY TRY SO HARD T LOOK GOOD AND NORMAL
Suddenly the dying are important to him?
So thoughtful..
Just another mask worn by
Thank you all for your
Common
Ugh, my first thought is he
Journey on...
Journey, it's intesting that
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
Attention
Yes, it not only makes him look good but
what you said...
really
He's only doing it because