I've Been Ignored For Two Months
I've Been Ignored For Two Months
My (ex?)-N has been ignoring me for almost two months now.
We last spoke on March 8. He sounded stressed, but we talked for about 45 minutes. He declined us hanging out the next night, saying he wanted to relax at home. When I asked him to at least call me so we could try to have a conversation, he said okay...and we got off the phone.
I tried contacting him pretty fervently for three weeks afterwards. Every single day...I alternated between begging, getting angry, and trying to resume conversation normally as if nothing had happened. Nada.
A little over three weeks out, I decided to block him on my phone. That lasted for four weeks, during which I saw another guy and stupidly thought I was healing. However, that did not last long, because I had had the misconception that he was just ignoring me because of a certain event that he was preparing for and would therefore stop ignoring me after said event had finished.
Fast forward to last Saturday...I unblocked his number and tried calling him A LOT. After an hour of that, he turned off his phone. An hour and a half later, he turned it back on and I tried to call a few times. He then turned off his phone two and a half hours after turning it back on.
So here I am today. This is by far not the first time he has done this, but never for so long. This of course interrupts my healing, as I am so used to him coming back, that rather than feeling a little bit better every day, I actually feel more in pain because every day is more realization that he is not coming back.
I am wondering if this has happened to anyone else and if so, what was the conclusion?
He and I were together for three years. Also, I am curious if anyone else in a LTA with an N has noticed that their assholishness seems to cycle at the same time every single year. He has done something similar around this time for the past two years. In 2009, he broke up with me, ignored me and slept with a bunch of other people. Last year, he cheated on me while we were actually together. After each of these times, we have gotten back together and things have gotten so much better...only to cycle right back to the awfulness, which gets worse every year.
I would really like some insight from the veterans.
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Hi curiositykat, this subject
It could be so many reasons...
stay~strong
Phone games all the time!
Just curious
ignoring calls
My ex said he needed time to
Dierdre
I agree Deidre - definitely
Believe in yourself!
Terri
Mine is busy working! Hahaha,
That was the excuse mine used
Hunter
My husband is a surgeon for
control
AnyONE...who would purposely
8 months of silence for me!
I was with the exN for over 9
Believe in yourself!
Terri
Yup sounds familiar
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Curiositykat
It does make sense.....in a
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