janwind's story

I've been married for 26 years, and for the last 20 years or more, I've been trying to figure out what is wrong with this relationship? Is it me? Did I just simply marry the wrong man? He seems happy enough, why am I so miserable? Why do I feel o.k. when I'm at work, but lonely, sad, tired, no energy or motivation to get anything done when I'm home? All I want to do is sleep.

But the more I read on this website, the more I think I'm figuring out what is wrong with my marriage. I had someone suggest to me years ago that my husband might be a narcissist, but I didn't really have any idea what she meant. But now I think I'm starting to understand. When you say you couldn't focus on things enough to get them done, and you felt drained and run over by a train, boy, that sure hits home for me!

Thanks again! I'm sure glad I found this website, I think it's going to help me figure out what to do.