just to highlight the 'feeling sorry for him' issue
just to highlight the 'feeling sorry for him' issue
I know that feeling sorry for him thing...
His dad was hard cold man, his mum condoned it all, but he soon became a bully and at school he fought his way thru...
I told him once a school yard bully always a school yard bully.
WE can feel sorry for there choices and situations till the cows come home but it doesn’t make it okay to condone there behavior. whether it be that they take all of your balance in life in career or home life, they can only hurt now. They are masters of there own undoing. We use this site to articulate our feelings, to share experiences and mostly to learn. Theses guys will never do that. If they do well good luck to them. But we can see through the programming. They are so deeply shaped by an rampant ego.. Its nearly impossible to break down these barriers. WE are actually stronger than them. That’s why they have to (try) subjugate us. Its all they have. But we can control our own lives now.
we can demand a break down of that abuse.
They can not see there own abuse.
they refuse to acknowledge there abuse as children and they refuse to accept the abuse they cause as a result.
The grandiosity become to enticing. A way to wIn back power over your abusers in one way to survive but sadly stuck in revenge they fail to discriminate between foe and friend.
I am going to try find it again but I will try to post a radical article/blog I read about the link between western society, spiritual narcissim, image, identity, dualism, and how modern life has become so entwined with idea of the objectified body... (not sure how accurately you can share into this but I get this stuff I really do)
They base themselves entirely on the ego.
so they can use the ego as a tool to survival.
as a control mechanism in a harsh reality.
I do feel sorry for that though.
That our society breeds this illness so readily.
Spoon feeding civilization with pure narcissism sugar coated as pure driven snow…
there is a fashinable drive in our society to see the use of power and authroity over others askay. This world is deeply unfair and well I feel sorry for that alright..
The broken yogi
http://brokenyogi.blogspot.com/2010/02/more-on-spiritual-narcissism-self...
Spiritual Narcissism
great link...
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I too have practiced yoga
Peace. J
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